Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby vickitwo » Tue Mar 24, 2015 12:40 pm

(((((((Maia))))))))))

I am so sorry to hear of the death of your dear friend. I have always thought of you as real gem to all of us here on Colon Club. You have always been a source of love, wisdom, intelligence and thru your research, an inspiration for hope.
Vicki

DH Dx 1/2012 @ age 52
stage IV CC
transverse colon,omentum, cecum,liver,lungs,L5
9 rounds of Folfox, Avastin,
5FU/Leucovorin/Avastin
radiation tx to L5 and hips
Folfiri/Zaltrap
12/13/13 Folfox/Avastin
1/4/2014 passed away @ Hospice House- age 54

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Crystald
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Maia <3

Postby Crystald » Tue Mar 24, 2015 1:38 pm

Prayers and condolence on your loss.
Age 58
DX Jul 2014 Stage IVb CRC metastatic, unknown primary, CEA 1826
Inoperable, Chemo for life
KRASwt
MSI: not tested
29 Jul 14 Port
30 Jul - 19 Jan 2015 Folfox (12 cycles) CEA 164.5
9 Feb 15 - 20 May Flofiri failed (6 cycles) CEA 417.0
17 Jul 15 - Initiated Vectibix CEA 555.5
17 Jul 2015 - 14 Jan 2016 Vectibix
8 Feb 2016 - 11 Apr 2016 Xeloda
26 Apr 2016 Hospice

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby bitchslapped » Tue Mar 24, 2015 2:14 pm

Sending my deepest condolences, Maia, on the loss of your Dear Friend, your BFF, your confidante over the years. During your time of sorrow & feeling of great loss, may you find solace in knowing as her friendship was a gift, a blessing to you; equally was yours to her. Your relationship lives on in you & where it has led you.

In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends.
~John Churton Collins
British literary critic
1848-1908

I hope you never underestimate your contribution to her life, her journey...rather, find peace & acceptance in the value of what it brought both of you.
Warm embrace from afar...
Lois (BS)
DSS,35YO,unresect mCRC DX 7/'14,lvr,LN,peri,rib
FOLFOX+Avstn 4 Rnds d/c 10/'14
Stent 9/'14
FOLFIRI+Avstn 10/'14
Gone From My Sight 2/20/15
Me:garden variety polyps + precancerous polyp, diverticulitis
Carergver x2 DH,DM dbl occupancy,'03-'10
DH dx 47YO mCRC,'04-'07, lvr, billiary tree fried x HAI
DM dx CC 85YO,CC,CHF,stroke,dementia,aphasia

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby purplekangaroo » Tue Mar 24, 2015 4:53 pm

My thoughts are with you Maia, sorry for the loss of such a dear friend. Thinking of you
LAR 29/10/13
Leak, temp ileo 5/11/13
Stage 3cc aged 31 4\20 nodes
6 months xelox 24/12/13
1 clear CT 5/7/14
Genetic test negative for lynch
Ileo reversed 18/11/14
Colonoscopy 6/2/15 normal
Second CT 6/2/15 ??
Trying to resume some sort of normality??

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Rob in PA
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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby Rob in PA » Tue Mar 24, 2015 6:22 pm

I'm so sorry to hear of your friend passing Maia. You have always been so strong for us, and your friend. Strength coming to you from Pennsylvania as you grieve.

Rob
dx 11/07 crc IIIb @ 39
Xelox/Rad/ temp colostomy
LAR/J-pouch/ temp ileo
Folfox-8
Failed reversal
2/09 liver mets; liver resect/ileo reversal
Folfiri/Avastin - 12
2/11 5 lung mets
Folfiri/Avastin 2011
SBRT 3/12
Lung met 5/13/ said NO to more chemo
SBRT 8/13
2 lung mets 5/14, VATS 8/14, NED

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chixter
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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby chixter » Tue Mar 24, 2015 6:37 pm

Maia, I'm very sorry to hear this news. My tears fall with yours today.

Greg
ImageFather/Caregiver to beautiful 25 y/o daughter with mCRC Stg 4

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby andy21 » Tue Mar 24, 2015 6:49 pm

Maia,

You were the shining light whose knowledge enlightened so many of us.

Remember that the power that guides us guides stars and galaxies too.

Please continue to be yourself in this time always as you are really special.
Caregiver: To 67 Yr father
diag. Stage IV, 5/12, liver mets
6 cycles Xelox/Avastin, Start 06/12
Stage 1 of Two Stage Resection Surgery in Dec, 12. 2nd line fails.
T Cell Trial May-Jul, 2013
Becomes a Heavenly Angel in August, 2013

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby Kathleen808 » Wed Mar 25, 2015 1:30 am

Sending you love Maia. You are a beautiful friend and I am so very sorry for your loss.

Aloha,
Kathleen
Kathleen
DH 1/09 3c 51yr rsct
Folfx 3/09
1 l nd 9/09 Flfri Avstn
PET clr 6/10
Folfri Avstn 7/10
ND 10/10
1/11 lng mets Flfri Avastn
ND 2/12
9/12 Flfri Avastn
10/12 grwth lng mts Erbtx Avstn Irintcn
1/13 stabl
9/13 grwth
8/16/14 passed into eternal peace

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby elise » Wed Mar 25, 2015 8:20 am

Maia, my heart aches for you. I know I'm having a really difficult week and my heart is just full of love and caring. Keep your chin up XOX

Elise
2012
Feb - Stage 2 (T3 N0 M0) CC @ 30
Mar - R hemicolectomy, 18 LN
May-Nov 6 - Chemo (8 Xeloda)
2013
Feb - NED
2014
Feb - NED
May - Stage 4 - 1 liver met @ 32
Jun - Liver resection
Oct - CLEAN SCAN
Aug-Jan - FOLFOX 5 rounds, 5FU X 6
2015
Ap, Oct - NED
2016
Mar - NED

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby Sleen » Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:14 am

Maia,

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

Celine
my blog: Cancer Riot

NED since April 2016!
April 2016: lower left lung lobectomy. NED
8 mo. f/u: 1 of 7 tumors progressed.
6 mo. f/u PR confirmed (Jan 2016)
Jul 2015: NIH TIL trial NCT01174121 NCI/NIH Surgery Branch FAQ
Dec 2014 confirmed stage IV w/bilateral lung mets
FOLFOX + Radiation (bladder)
KRAS G12D :: MSS
dx Sep 2013 @47yo: IIIc T4b N2b MX [bladder invasion, 17/21 lymph nodes]

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby exaussie » Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:55 am

Maia may you have the strength to get through these days. I truly know what that's like. If you can feel the love we have for you then I know you can get one foot in front of the other. The true meaning of friendship is when you put your life aside to do what your friend needed. Blessings will surely be for you.
DS 26 yrs old diagnosed 6/13 T3N2aM1b
Resection 6/13
6 rounds chemo folfax
12/13 Fissure
hernia surgery 12/13
5 months break
Maintenance chemo 3/14
Crazy growth. Liver failing. Folfox and vectibex 7-29-14
Chemo failure Hospice 8/26
Left us 8/28

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Maia
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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby Maia » Wed Mar 25, 2015 4:29 pm

I'm so moved for your words that I don't really find what to say... thank you.
My friend posted a couple of times on the forum, here and here.
She was the sister I never had -and I was her 'mom, sis, amiga and everything', to quote her, in spite of a lot of troubles she went through, during the past year and a half. We were 6,000 miles/8,000 kilometers away, but each night, during 6 years, we would 'meet' in our dreams at a beach I would email her : ) . I've spent 12 days with her, there in Canada, during July 2012; that was our only 'in person' time ever.
I sent my last beach to her this past February 9th, when I got an incomprehensible email from her account -I've realized she couldn't longer handle the email.
I so wish there is some way to meet her again.
She was the most loving person you can imagine, extremely talented (she was an artist), admired and loved by so many.
I'm rambling, I'm sorry. I'd like to say more, I can't right now. But I didn't want you to think that I didn't read your lovely words.
I came to this forum for her, 3 years ago, but since 2 years ago I've stayed here only because of you, my fellows. I love you -the ones who already departed, the ones who are here.
I'm reading some of our years of emails, with her, and laughing and crying. Which means... living, I guess, since life is both.
Thank you, again.

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby CRguy » Wed Mar 25, 2015 4:35 pm

Maia wrote: I so wish there is some way to meet her again.

You will my friend and she will tell you what you meant to her.
We have already told you here, what you mean to us.

Love Peace and Harmony across the miles
CRguy
Caregiver x 4
Stage IV A rectal cancer/lung met
17 Year survivor
my life is an ongoing totally randomized UNcontrolled experiment with N=1 !
Review of my Journey so far

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby Asterix » Wed Mar 25, 2015 7:15 pm

Maia,

Deepest condolences on the loss of Faith. And thank you for all you do here.
Stage IVb age 37 Nov11
FOLFOX+Avastin, Xeloda+Avastin
1 year NED
regorafenib Oct13-Feb14
lymph node, lung, spine, rib and liver mets
GNAQ Q209P mutation > Mekinist Jul14
Radiation bone mets Aug14
Pain>hospital Oct14
FOLFIRI Nov14 >
Home Xmas 14

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Re: Faith, Maia's Friend has passed

Postby jvaime21 » Thu Mar 26, 2015 4:53 pm

My dear Maia., my heart felt to you today reading this post is a heartbreaken. Lossing a good friend, sister is like you loss half of your body. You are very good friend to me and theo too.. You are very helpful to us, You always here to lend hand in times of our difficulties. I love you my Dear.. We are here for you today and tomorrow and always be. How i wish i could hug you.

Retchel
wife of Stg 4 SRC
Diag.'12-2013(rd+Xeloda+oxi)
04/16/14 Clear CT-
8/25/14Kidney blockd nepro.
Rec. lung 1 enlrg. Abdomen
Inoperable/incurable /Chemo for life
11/21/14 Xeloda+Irinetocan 6x
hoping for a bright sunny day


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