The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

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canadiandaughter
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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby canadiandaughter » Fri Sep 04, 2015 6:45 pm

I'm just curious, as the doctors want knowledge about your continued good health, are the scans a gratuity ?

Here in Alberta we do not pay for scans, unless you want to jump the wait list and go to a private clinic. For the most part, you get in fairly fast if you "need" to. Everything is covered with our provincial health care system, which at this time, we do not have to pay for either, but that could soon change.
DD to 81 year old father
dx 24/07/14 iv cc mets liver/lung
folifiri started 19/07/14
shrinkage of all mets
growth in the liver,started folfox/avastin 80% 13/01/16
reduced to 70% due to side effects 27/01/16
First scan on folfox shows shrinkage in lungs, but liver just stable
6 rounds of vectibix-fail. 3cm growth and new spots showing Waiting for panel recommendations
At peace January 8, 2017

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby WifeOfMike » Sat Sep 05, 2015 11:37 am

Frenchie »
As some of you have noticed, I haven't been on here much these days. I found that I had to take a step back from all the gloom and doom on this forum recently. I took the deaths of Pollo 65 and Voxx hard. It reminded me of my own mortality.


My darling Frenchie,

We all came here for a reason and stay for other reasons. YOU are one of MY reasons for coming in & out of "retirement" on CT
I am so glad that YOU are hanging on & still managing to live LIFE to it's fullest & do it YOUR WAY. Bravo for Mrs. Frenchie sharing walks with you. I dare say I would join you, if you lived closer! (Now don't go into fantasy's of a "threesome", LOL...... I mean't joining you in your walks, LOL) :lol: :mrgreen: 8)

......and yes, why wouldn't the Docs marvel at your stamina? I know WE all do!!!!!!!!!!!!

All my love sent your way!
Vicki
Bad Ass WIFE
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby stu » Thu Sep 10, 2015 3:17 am

Hi,
How are you getting on?
I have so missed your updates and your take on life. Hope your having fun.
Kind regards
Stu
supporter to my mum who lives a great life despite a difficult diagnosis
stage4 2009 significant spread to liver
2010 colon /liver resection
chemo following recurrence
73% of liver removed
enjoying life treatment free
2016 lung resection
Oct 2017 nice clear scan . Two lung nodules disappeared
Oct 2018. Another clear scan .

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby bitchslapped » Thu Sep 10, 2015 3:26 pm

Frenchie, are you out on one of your long walk w/the Mrs? Yep, sometimes we need to take breaks from the board.

Walking can add minutes to your life.
This enables you at 85 years old to spend an additional 5 months in a nursing home
at �7000 per month.

My grandpa started walking five miles a day when he was 60.
Now he's 97 years old and we don't know where the hell he is.


My fav:

Frenchie wrote:I prefer not to think before I speak. I like to be just as surprised as everyone else by what comes out of my mouth.


Thinking of you.

BS
DSS,35YO,unresect mCRC DX 7/'14,lvr,LN,peri,rib
FOLFOX+Avstn 4 Rnds d/c 10/'14
Stent 9/'14
FOLFIRI+Avstn 10/'14
Gone From My Sight 2/20/15
Me:garden variety polyps + precancerous polyp, diverticulitis
Carergver x2 DH,DM dbl occupancy,'03-'10
DH dx 47YO mCRC,'04-'07, lvr, billiary tree fried x HAI
DM dx CC 85YO,CC,CHF,stroke,dementia,aphasia

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby canadiandaughter » Thu Sep 10, 2015 9:53 pm

Frenchie, we need your sense of humor around here!!! Its been a real shit show lately and we could use some good laughs. I hope all is well and you havent lost your butt at the casino!!! Looks like a beautiful weekend coming up, hope you are still out enjoying your walks!!
DD to 81 year old father
dx 24/07/14 iv cc mets liver/lung
folifiri started 19/07/14
shrinkage of all mets
growth in the liver,started folfox/avastin 80% 13/01/16
reduced to 70% due to side effects 27/01/16
First scan on folfox shows shrinkage in lungs, but liver just stable
6 rounds of vectibix-fail. 3cm growth and new spots showing Waiting for panel recommendations
At peace January 8, 2017

Nik Colon

Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby Nik Colon » Fri Sep 11, 2015 12:02 am

Thinking of you Frenchie, hope all is good and hope to hear from you soon :)

Hugs,
Nik

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby Frenchie's Wife » Fri Sep 11, 2015 4:15 pm

Well, I had a wonderful trip up north. We did not take the scenic route after all. My son had to drop off a care package to my granddaughter at a northern university that was just a little out of our way. I had a chance to visit with her for a bit.

This trip was a little rushed, as I had to be back for my CT scan on Wednesday. We left Friday for the 12 hour trip and drove back on Tuesday. Hardly enough time to enjoy all the neat things to do around his ranch. He's in the oil industry but both he and his wife have a love of horses and live out in the country.

It was nice spending quality time with the three of us together once again. That happens very seldom because of their demanding careers. Maybe once or twice a year. We stay in touch by phone and text.

Did I tell you that my BFF and I tracked down the travelling carnival rides at another fair in a nabouring township the following weekend ? We went on all the rides again !
We are going to a giant corn maze tomorrow a few miles from town. We are always on the lookout for fun things to do.

Good health is merely the slowest rate at which one can die. I still like a good steak. I didn't fight my way to the top of the food chain to become a vegetarian. I also like bacon and eggs in the morning. A day's work for a chicken, a lifetime commitment for a pig.

Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

Good friends don't let you do stupid things. Best friends don't let you do stupid things alone.
Caregiver to DH 59 yr, male, Stage IV at Dx
Dx Sept 2009
Liver,bladder mets, 5 surgeries
Lots of chemo
Inoperable lung mets nov 2013
Stopped all treatments in February 2014 due to QOL issues
I am in God's hands now !!
Feb 2015 - too many new mets to count !
At peace July 9, 2017

Nik Colon

Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby Nik Colon » Fri Sep 11, 2015 4:37 pm

Good friends don't let you do stupid things. Best friends don't let you do stupid things alone.

Hell yeah! Woohoo!

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby jortego128 » Sat Sep 12, 2015 7:25 am

Frenchie wrote:Well, I had a wonderful trip up north. We did not take the scenic route after all. My son had to drop off a care package to my granddaughter at a northern university that was just a little out of our way. I had a chance to visit with her for a bit.

This trip was a little rushed, as I had to be back for my CT scan on Wednesday. We left Friday for the 12 hour trip and drove back on Tuesday. Hardly enough time to enjoy all the neat things to do around his ranch. He's in the oil industry but both he and his wife have a love of horses and live out in the country.

It was nice spending quality time with the three of us together once again. That happens very seldom because of their demanding careers. Maybe once or twice a year. We stay in touch by phone and text.

Did I tell you that my BFF and I tracked down the travelling carnival rides at another fair in a nabouring township the following weekend ? We went on all the rides again !
We are going to a giant corn maze tomorrow a few miles from town. We are always on the lookout for fun things to do.

Good health is merely the slowest rate at which one can die. I still like a good steak. I didn't fight my way to the top of the food chain to become a vegetarian. I also like bacon and eggs in the morning. A day's work for a chicken, a lifetime commitment for a pig.

Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

Good friends don't let you do stupid things. Best friends don't let you do stupid things alone.


Frenchie, it sounds like you are living life to the fullest, laissez les bons temps rouler! You have a way with words and great attitude-- I enjoy reading your updates. I will pray for a good result on your scan next week!
DM 57 yrs old dx 6/8/15 T:4a N:1b M:1
KRAS G12D and TP53 C242fs mutations
Poorly Differentiated, Prominent Signet Ring Component(~50%)
Microsatellite Stable, 3 of (13)lymph nodes positive
15 Liver mets, largest 3.2 cm
Prim. Resection, Right Hemicolectomy 6/21/15
Start Chemo 7/20/15
2 rounds FOLFOX, 1 round FOLFOX +Avastin
CT 8/28/15, met growth, largest 4.5cm
4 rounds FOLFOX+Avastin
CT 11/06/15 mets stable, lungs clear
Begin FOLFIRI+Avastin 11/17/15, Stop chemo 1/26/16
Entered Paradise 3/11/2016

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby BishB » Sat Sep 12, 2015 9:00 am

I'm enjoying your updates too!
Dx Stage 4 CRC w. mets to liver, inoperable, 2014
FOLFOX with 5FU & Avastin, 2014
FOLFIRI with 5FU & Zaltrap, 2015
5FU & Zaltrap, 2015
20% progression
Start Erbitux only

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby Frenchie's Wife » Sun Sep 13, 2015 12:10 pm

I am frustrated at the moment.

I have been feeling really good lately. My stamina has increased with these long walks.
I have no ackes or pains, life is good.

The problem is I can't plan ahead. I came across a business opportunity that I would love to get involved in. I've had my eye on this business for some time now. I know that by tweaking it a bit, we could double the sales. If I could count on being around awhile longer, I would jump at this opportunity.

This is when I get upset with my situation. I'm in limbo at the moment. I don't know what tomorrow will bring. It's been this way for six years now.

I'm an enterprerner by nature. I spot business opportunities everywhere. It frustrates the shit out of me that I have to pass on these because of my damn cancer.
Caregiver to DH 59 yr, male, Stage IV at Dx
Dx Sept 2009
Liver,bladder mets, 5 surgeries
Lots of chemo
Inoperable lung mets nov 2013
Stopped all treatments in February 2014 due to QOL issues
I am in God's hands now !!
Feb 2015 - too many new mets to count !
At peace July 9, 2017

canadiandaughter
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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby canadiandaughter » Sun Sep 13, 2015 1:18 pm

I'd go for it and get the Mrs or your boys involved. They could gain a lot from your business sense!!
DD to 81 year old father
dx 24/07/14 iv cc mets liver/lung
folifiri started 19/07/14
shrinkage of all mets
growth in the liver,started folfox/avastin 80% 13/01/16
reduced to 70% due to side effects 27/01/16
First scan on folfox shows shrinkage in lungs, but liver just stable
6 rounds of vectibix-fail. 3cm growth and new spots showing Waiting for panel recommendations
At peace January 8, 2017

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby Kiwi Debz » Sun Sep 13, 2015 2:02 pm

Frenchie you are amazing!

What about consulting? Selling your tips and tricks to whomever buys these businesses? Could work?!!

Keep on truckin'

Deb
6/14 DX mCrc stage 4
7/14 R. hemicolectomy; 4/17 LN; liver res. peri met; repair to illiac artery
8/14 FOLFOX
10/14 PET recurrence LN; liver ? Peri met Continue FOLFOX
12/14 PET: stable .Liver only! FOLFOX
02/15 Liver resection. NED
03/15 foundation One testing - BRAF mutant
05/15 progression; Hilum node; both lungs?
08/15 NED !!!!
Age 51 Mum to Tom (RIP) and Jose 18
KIA KAHA - Be strong!

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby bitchslapped » Sun Sep 13, 2015 2:42 pm

Looks like the girls have some good suggestions Frenchie!
I also get what you're saying. That brain of yours is working overtime :wink:

BS
DSS,35YO,unresect mCRC DX 7/'14,lvr,LN,peri,rib
FOLFOX+Avstn 4 Rnds d/c 10/'14
Stent 9/'14
FOLFIRI+Avstn 10/'14
Gone From My Sight 2/20/15
Me:garden variety polyps + precancerous polyp, diverticulitis
Carergver x2 DH,DM dbl occupancy,'03-'10
DH dx 47YO mCRC,'04-'07, lvr, billiary tree fried x HAI
DM dx CC 85YO,CC,CHF,stroke,dementia,aphasia

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Re: The Grim Reaper took another swipe at me !!

Postby Frenchie's Wife » Wed Sep 16, 2015 4:01 pm

It has been 6 years this week that I was diagnosed stage 4 with 6 months to live.

With that in mind, my scan results was mostly good news.
My lung mets have increased significantly in size but have not spread much. If fact, the cancer has hardly spread at all since my last scan !!

It has only increased in size in two other places. Overall, this is a very good result. It is just another anomaly with this crazy cancer journey of mine.

My oncologist says she is pleased when her patients prove her wrong. She had predicted that I would expire before the end of summer.

I told her I was planning on ringing in the new year with a big party. I was going to have one this weekend to celebrate being around 6 years later but everyone had plans of their own.
Our family is scattered across Canada so it takes a lot of planning to have a family gathering.

My super powers are back !! I can still leap off tall buildings, but only once. The adventure continues !!!
Caregiver to DH 59 yr, male, Stage IV at Dx
Dx Sept 2009
Liver,bladder mets, 5 surgeries
Lots of chemo
Inoperable lung mets nov 2013
Stopped all treatments in February 2014 due to QOL issues
I am in God's hands now !!
Feb 2015 - too many new mets to count !
At peace July 9, 2017


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