Postby WifeOfMike » Thu Feb 19, 2015 12:58 am
Hello everyone,
Although I lost my hubby to this disease, I am still an overall optimist & I believe in my gut that we will someday have this as a manageable disease and someday a cure. Colon cancer is trickier than some other cancers, in that it is a more complicated cancer to begin with and often times extremely resistant to the arsenal of drugs we have to work with now. BUTT, it takes research, clinical trials, money, and needs the help of us to get there. Which is why we as a team (hubs & I) decided to part from FDA approved drugs and he participated in clinical trials. We knew he would more than likely follow the journey as it ended, but we would help others get a hair closer by our participation in the process. There was always the "possibility of a Miracle", no matter how small- than what we faced had we chosen the FDA approved route his entire journey.
Being the mother of three sons, who now have 3 family histories of Colon Cancer on their father's side....(and no sign of Lynch syndrome) I have a very real fear for my kids. I have gone one step further & set up a Colon Cancer Research Fund in my hubby's honor, and donated personally. I wish I were a zillionaire- I am FAR from it, but did what I could & set up a donation mechanism for some of our friends & family to easily follow. All we CAN do is try, hope, and keep communication open loud & clear..... like we do HERE. They have cured so many diseases over the course of time, science has come so very far. We have to keep hope alive for all touched by Colon Cancer, for ME, for THEM, for YOU and those in the future. I am with you Michael...... Leave MY herd alone!
Hugs to all,
Vicki
Bad Ass WIFE
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS