In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE*** + photos

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singingholly
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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE

Postby singingholly » Wed Dec 31, 2014 11:24 pm

I wish you the most bright dawn.
Warmest hugs
Olivia
Dec2011 sigm IIIst res T3N1(2/18)M0 Xelox
Oct2012 5liv.mets Dec 2012 liv.res
Jan2013 1liv.met Folfiri+avastin
Jul2013 liv.res Folfiri+/av
Feb2014 10+2lu.mets & 1abd node Folfoxiri+SBRT
Sep2014 Res rx l. BUT spot on diaph:SBRT
Dec2014 3+6lu.mets.Immuno

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE

Postby bitchslapped » Thu Jan 01, 2015 3:21 am

For last year's words belong to last year's language. And next year's words await another voice.
T.S. Eliot, Four Quartets (English writer, poet)

It is now 2015

Happy New Year to You & Yours

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bs
DSS,35YO,unresect mCRC DX 7/'14,lvr,LN,peri,rib
FOLFOX+Avstn 4 Rnds d/c 10/'14
Stent 9/'14
FOLFIRI+Avstn 10/'14
Gone From My Sight 2/20/15
Me:garden variety polyps + precancerous polyp, diverticulitis
Carergver x2 DH,DM dbl occupancy,'03-'10
DH dx 47YO mCRC,'04-'07, lvr, billiary tree fried x HAI
DM dx CC 85YO,CC,CHF,stroke,dementia,aphasia

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE ***UPDATE***

Postby WifeOfMike » Fri Jan 02, 2015 4:47 am

Dearest friends,

It is with a heavy heart that I announce that my beloved husband Mike passed away January 1'st at 8 PM.
He was surrounded by the love of our 3 sons Sean, Cory & Brian and myself as he left this world and became our valiant Guardian Angel forever more.

I will fill you in later, but I held with my promises to the last........
He felt no pain, he was surrounded by his family in our home, and it was my blue eyes looking into his in his last moments

His last final gift to the world...... he donated his body to University of California, San Diego (UCSD) for medical science
An amazing man to the end. That is all I have for now.........

Goodbye, my love, my darling..... my best friend, lover & companion
Until we meet again.
All of my Love... now & forever
Vicki
Bad Ass WIFE
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby Teddi » Fri Jan 02, 2015 5:53 am

Oh Vicki,

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your heartbreaking loss. No one could have tried harder on behalf of their loved one. You set the standard for caregiving. I hope time brings you peace.

Teddi
47 at diagnosis
Colonoscopy, biopsy, CT, PET 6/14
Rectal cancer (tentatively) Stage III-b, MSS
Xeloda and radiation 25x finished 8/14
FOLFOX 5 cycles
Surgery 1/23/14 ~ T1N0MX ~ temp illeostomy
FOLFOX 3 cycles = total of 8
Illeostomy reversal 4/8/15
Clean scans x2, clear colonoscopy 9/15

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby lpas » Fri Jan 02, 2015 7:05 am

Vicki,

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. With all that you did for him your husband must have felt so loved and well-cared for. I've been following your thread and you sound like a truly amazing wife and mom. Please take care of yourself over the coming days and know that many, many people are thinking of you.
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11/14 Dx sigmoid CC @ 45yo
12/14 Colectomy + hysterectomy
Stage IIIB, T3N1bM0, 2/20 nodes, MSS, G2, KRAS(A146T), TP53, SMAD4, ERBB2, CEA 1.0
2/15-7/15 XELOX & celecoxib
2/19 clean scope
11/19 clean CT
Ongoing cimetidine & other targeted supplements
Mom to a 6 & 8yo

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby Marian1961 » Fri Jan 02, 2015 7:21 am

I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mike, and for your sons loss of their Dad. Wishing you peace in the days ahead.
Caregiver 53 brother
Dx 09/13 stage iv, met liver
Emergency stoma
? Chemo 09/30

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby cmrl » Fri Jan 02, 2015 7:32 am

I'm very sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. He was very lucky to have you as his partner and caregiver.
Resection of splenic flexure 7/24/13
T3N2BM0, Stage 3c,12/29 nodes
Folfox x12 9/13-3/14
CT scan 4/14, enlarged spleen, otherwise clear
CT 4/15, spleen WNL.
6/17 3 cm benign polyp at ileocecal valve, awaiting removal

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby jgall » Fri Jan 02, 2015 8:02 am

Heartbroken. I wish you and your family peace.

Julia
DH Chris, 50, Dx Nov '10 Stg 4
cardiac arrest from 5-FU
Iri/Erbi, RFA, liver/colon resection, more Iri/Erbi
Oct14-Feb15 clinical trial
SIRT Apr15-unsuccessful
Stopped treatment May15
Hospice July15
Passed 8/15/15
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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby singingholly » Fri Jan 02, 2015 8:19 am

Oh I'm just crying... just crying.
But still I feel such a power coming from you, Mike and your family... That's why I may hope you won't feel the cold..., neither for one second...
I hold you
Olivia
Dec2011 sigm IIIst res T3N1(2/18)M0 Xelox
Oct2012 5liv.mets Dec 2012 liv.res
Jan2013 1liv.met Folfiri+avastin
Jul2013 liv.res Folfiri+/av
Feb2014 10+2lu.mets & 1abd node Folfoxiri+SBRT
Sep2014 Res rx l. BUT spot on diaph:SBRT
Dec2014 3+6lu.mets.Immuno

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby JJ2212 » Fri Jan 02, 2015 8:22 am

My sincere condoleances to you and your family. Words fail to convey my thoughts, but i can try: you are an amazing woman and took incredible care of your hubby. Now please take care of yourself.

Janie
Rectal cancer dx 04/13 @ 42, MSS, KRAS positive
T3N2M1 (1 lung met)
5 weeks xeloda+radiation finished 07/13
APR 9/13 (permanent colostomy), 27/31 nodes positive :-(
12 rounds of FOLFOX 04/14
Lung met growth 11/14
26 cycles Regorafenib (Stivarga) from 11/15 to 01/17
New lung met and chest/neck lymph nodes 01/17
1 cycle Folfiri

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby pfCml73183 » Fri Jan 02, 2015 8:24 am

I am sorry to hear this Vicki.
My prayers are with you and your boys.
Peace, Celeste
Wife and BF to Peter, 54
mCRC/IV/BRAF+
Erbitux and Urelumab trial @MSKCC 3/15
went home 5/8/15

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby Maia » Fri Jan 02, 2015 8:36 am

((((my Vicki))))
Love stays!

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby Valorie » Fri Jan 02, 2015 9:17 am

Vicki- my heart is just breaking for you and your family. I'm praying that God will continue to give you strength over the coming days. Much love to you.

Valorie
Age 53 dx 2a CC 0/21 LN Oncotypedx score: 11
Sigmoidectomy 5/8/14
MSS No lymphovasular involvement,
6/14 PET - NED, 12/14 CT NED, 7/15 CT - NED
6/14-12/9/14 Xeloda 8 cycles
2/12/15 incisional hernia repair - Boooo!

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby Bev G » Fri Jan 02, 2015 9:35 am

I'm so sorry for your loss of your dear Mike. Your work is done, Vicki. Now rest. I hope the sweet memories of your life with Mike will help to sustain you. I wish you peace.

((((Vicki))))

Bev
58 yo Type1 DM 48 years
12/09 Stage IV 2/22 nodes + liver met, colon resec
3 tx FOLFIRI, liver resec 4/10
9/10 6 mos off chemo, Neg PET&CTC CEA nl
2/11 finished total 10 rounds chemo

9/13 ^17th clean PET/CT NED for now

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Re: In the BLINK of an EYE- ***UPDATE***

Postby justin case » Fri Jan 02, 2015 9:40 am

You know your friends are here for you, when you want us to be.
My thoughts are with You, and your family,
Michael
7/11 diagnosed Stage 2 colon and rectal cancer
chemo/rad
lar/temp ilio
Reversal & port removal
21 round of chemo Folfox 9tx, 5fu 12 tx
Last treatment July 2012


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