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Icesk8tr
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby Icesk8tr » Wed Nov 12, 2014 11:53 am

Dear Puppy,
I'm so sorry to read about the sudden death of your friend. My thoughts are with you.

Hugs,
Christine
Stage IV CC 2010

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ziggymonster
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby ziggymonster » Wed Nov 12, 2014 12:13 pm

I'm sorry for your loss.....know the feeling ... 2 years ago my BIL wasn't feeling well after getting home from work, went to lie down never got up , had just turned 60.....I was very close to him and always thought it would be me first.
DX advanced prostate cancer 2002
2014 still fighting mPca , failed surgery, radiation, hormone
DX Stage IIIa Rectal Cancer 12/12 1 of 12 nodes +
LAR permanent colostomy 1/13
Folfox 2/13 - 7/13 clear CT CEA 1.2
7/14 liver met chemo the resect in Oct
6/15 2 pos lung mets watching for now

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Re: heartbroken...

Postby exaussie » Wed Nov 12, 2014 12:22 pm

Sorry for your loss. We just don't know when our time will come.
DS 26 yrs old diagnosed 6/13 T3N2aM1b
Resection 6/13
6 rounds chemo folfax
12/13 Fissure
hernia surgery 12/13
5 months break
Maintenance chemo 3/14
Crazy growth. Liver failing. Folfox and vectibex 7-29-14
Chemo failure Hospice 8/26
Left us 8/28

michelle c
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby michelle c » Wed Nov 12, 2014 12:25 pm

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heartfelt sympathy to you at this sad and difficult time.

A hug for you xox
May 25 2009 Dx with CC (sigmoid colon) 2 days after my 44th b'day
CEA prior to surgery 4.7
Jun 3 2009 LAR - Stage III 3/10 lymph nodes
Jul 6 - Dec 10 2009 - 12 cycles FOLFIRI
Genetic testing - inconclusive for Lynch
Jul 2012 port removed & hernia repair

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Re: heartbroken...

Postby bitchslapped » Wed Nov 12, 2014 12:32 pm

Life just never stops "giving" does it Skypup. Sending my most sincere condolences to you on the loss of a dear friend, a member of your support system, someone you loved. Heart attack has taken a few in my family before 50, one brother 9 yrs of angina & surgeries knowing his life would be cut very short & those that are left "walk between the cracks" so to speak wondering when their turn is around the corner. Stroke is particularly cruel...our choices aren't very good in this world.

So very sorry for your pain.

Slapped
DSS,35YO,unresect mCRC DX 7/'14,lvr,LN,peri,rib
FOLFOX+Avstn 4 Rnds d/c 10/'14
Stent 9/'14
FOLFIRI+Avstn 10/'14
Gone From My Sight 2/20/15
Me:garden variety polyps + precancerous polyp, diverticulitis
Carergver x2 DH,DM dbl occupancy,'03-'10
DH dx 47YO mCRC,'04-'07, lvr, billiary tree fried x HAI
DM dx CC 85YO,CC,CHF,stroke,dementia,aphasia

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Re: heartbroken...

Postby Stanfordmom » Wed Nov 12, 2014 2:35 pm

So sorry about your loss. Hugs to you ((((((((Skypup))))))))
DX 4/2/2014 at 44, stage 4, mets liver and ovaries
Mom to 2 boys
Three surgeries, HAI pump and lots of chemo
fighting!

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Re: heartbroken...

Postby singingholly » Wed Nov 12, 2014 2:54 pm

So sorry for your loss... Life is so absurdely cruel...
Hang in.
Olivia
Dec2011 sigm IIIst res T3N1(2/18)M0 Xelox
Oct2012 5liv.mets Dec 2012 liv.res
Jan2013 1liv.met Folfiri+avastin
Jul2013 liv.res Folfiri+/av
Feb2014 10+2lu.mets & 1abd node Folfoxiri+SBRT
Sep2014 Res rx l. BUT spot on diaph:SBRT
Dec2014 3+6lu.mets.Immuno

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TheLadySkye
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby TheLadySkye » Wed Nov 12, 2014 5:15 pm

I am so deeply sorry :( My thoughts and prayers go out to you and his family.

*hugs you to itty bitty pieces*
TheLadySkye
Stage 2b (T4N0M0) small intestine (jejunum) 8/13
Small bowel resection 9/13
CT 10/13 - NED
FOLFOX chemotherapy 11/13 - 4/14
CT 6/14 - NED and my nemesis (the power port) out!
Clean colonoscopy and endoscopy 9/14
CT 12/14, 6/15 - NED!!!

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Re: heartbroken...

Postby tammylayne » Wed Nov 12, 2014 6:19 pm

So sorry for your loss...hoping your memories bring you some comfort and peace at this difficult time...many gentle hugs to you....
51 F
'06 Stage 1 CC,
'10 Stage 3 Rectal

"You never know how strong you are until you have to become your own hero."

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Re: heartbroken...

Postby teachpdx » Wed Nov 12, 2014 8:40 pm

So sorry to hear about the loss of your close friend - it can be so sad. I've lost so many older friends from my church and I still miss them and there is a hole in your life. I hope you have a wonderful celebration of your friends life and you remember the happy times through the tears. :cry:
4/24/12 RC T3N1M0 age 53
5/23-7/2 - 26 chemorad - Xeloda
7/16 Lynch- MSH2
8/28 LAR w/ temp ileo, CR, 0/11,M0, hysterectomy
10/13 6 cycles Xeloda - completed only 1 1/2 due to HFS
3/12/13 - reversal
8/13 NED
6/15 - HFS gone!

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CRguy
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby CRguy » Wed Nov 12, 2014 8:47 pm

Very sorry for your loss Skypup
seems if it is not one thing it is always something else... even a "bus" of sorts.

In Harmony
CRguy
Caregiver x 4
Stage IV A rectal cancer/lung met
17 Year survivor
my life is an ongoing totally randomized UNcontrolled experiment with N=1 !
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby Bev G » Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:03 am

I'm so sorry to read this, S.puppy. An ironic and tragic loss for you. Hold all those wonderful memories tight. Sending you much love.

(((((T))))))

Bev
58 yo Type1 DM 48 years
12/09 Stage IV 2/22 nodes + liver met, colon resec
3 tx FOLFIRI, liver resec 4/10
9/10 6 mos off chemo, Neg PET&CTC CEA nl
2/11 finished total 10 rounds chemo

9/13 ^17th clean PET/CT NED for now

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Kathleen808
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Re: heartbroken...

Postby Kathleen808 » Sat Nov 15, 2014 2:40 am

Oh Skypup, I am so very sorry for this tremendous loss. We don't know when someone we love will be gone. All we can do is love and when they are gone grieve and hold them in our hearts for ever. I hurt for you.

Aloha,
Kathleen
Kathleen
DH 1/09 3c 51yr rsct
Folfx 3/09
1 l nd 9/09 Flfri Avstn
PET clr 6/10
Folfri Avstn 7/10
ND 10/10
1/11 lng mets Flfri Avastn
ND 2/12
9/12 Flfri Avastn
10/12 grwth lng mts Erbtx Avstn Irintcn
1/13 stabl
9/13 grwth
8/16/14 passed into eternal peace


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