It came to me this afternoon....I hate

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ams5796
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby ams5796 » Sun Aug 14, 2016 8:54 pm

Regan,

I'm so sorry for your loss and what you're going through.


Ann
Stage 3C (or 4?) Rectal Cancer 01/07
2/10 lung mets
3/11 VATS
6/11 VATS
7/13 lung met
2/14 SBRT
NED 8/14
5/17 scan and MRI found treated spine met
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DBF
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby DBF » Sun Aug 14, 2016 9:21 pm

Regan, I am so sorry for your loss.
6/13 Dx @ 29 Wks pregnant, 42 yo
Adenocarcinoma, mucinous
7/13 C-sec/col resec/part. hysterectomy
8/13 Pulm embolism
8/13 Spread to liver
9/13 Liver resection
FOLFOX
CEA UP
ADAPT: Xeloda/Celebrex
2/14 oopherectomy
10/15 obstruction surg
10/17 Scar tissue removal/vsg surg
2019: NED :)
2021: NED :D
2022: NED :)
Mom to 3 boys: 24, 13 & 9
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NZJay
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate--SAD UPDATE

Postby NZJay » Sun Aug 14, 2016 10:38 pm

Regan wrote:The suffer train finally won on the 10th.
He gave it all he had.
I was fortunate enough to be in bed with him and hold him while he quietly took his last breath.
Most of you don't know me but I follow you...thinking of all of you


I'm truly sorry for your loss and I am glad you had a peaceful final moment with your DH, and that his suffering is no more. Best wishes
11-13 Dx CC
SPS T4b(touched stomach organ),N1(3/23),M0(Stage 3B)
11-13: resect + partial gastrect
2-14: 1 Tx Cape + Oxy; renal failure, colitis
4-14: 7 Tx Capecitabine
1-15: clear CT
7-15: clear scope
1-16: clear CT
3-17: clear CT
10-17: clear scope (5 year gap now!)
CEA@dx: 8.4 / 6-15: 4.0 / 10-15: 4.2 / 2-16: 4.9 / 7-16: 4.9 / 11-16: 5.0 / 6-17: 4.5
NED since resection
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Pita
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Pita » Sun Aug 14, 2016 11:35 pm

So sorry for your loss. Prayers to you, family and friends. RIP to your husband...
70yo Fem DX: 1/21/2016 RC Stage IV-Nodules lungs
MSS-Kras Wild-Lynch Synd Neg-Lung Biopsy 1/27/16-Port 2/19/16
MRI 7/7/16 Endometrial polyp found, watching LAR 7/19/16, No Ileostomy, Stage ypT3 N1
CT 11/7/16: Most mets stable,1 shrunk,1 new??
CEA Tests: 1/21/16=20, 12/22/16=5.3, 1/20/17=4.8, 2/15/17=6.2
9/20/16-1/24/17 Folfuri & Avastin #10/10 Done
PET/CT 2/10/16-1/31/17=Some shrunk & growth to 2, Avastin failing ??? :evil:
2/21/17 Folfuri & Avastin
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Stanfordmom
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Stanfordmom » Mon Aug 15, 2016 12:05 am

Regan,

So sorry for your loss. Hope your beautiful memory with your DH will get you through the tough times.

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Sha
DX 4/2/2014 at 44, stage 4, mets liver and ovaries
Mom to 2 boys
Three surgeries, HAI pump and lots of chemo
fighting!
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Swirdfish
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Swirdfish » Mon Aug 15, 2016 1:28 am

Sigh... Really puts it all back into perspective.

Very sad to read such a post.

Prayers and thoughts to you all.
06/2016 Went in for colonoscopy came out with a tumor. Age 35
12cm from verge at junction. Rectal cancer.
Clinical stage T3 NO MO
Temp illestomy
Completed 5FU and Radiation
LAR surgery planned 13 Oct 2016
Completed ULAR surgery 11-10-2016.
0/22 nodes
pT3 N0 M0 R1
Stage 2A

Pathology reviewed and changed
ypT3 N0 M0 R0

Started folfox 21-11-2016
5-4-17 NED
Reversal 12-4-17
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby LeonW » Mon Aug 15, 2016 8:41 am

So sorry to hear.
You, DH and family are in my thoughts
L
Dec 2012 - CC 2 unresect liver mets, CEA 41.8 (MM 65yrs)
Jan 2013 - colectomy @ spleen 2/26 nodes IVa T3N1bM1a
Feb-Jul - 1x Xelox-7x Xelox/Avastin, shrinkage from #3
Aug - 2x PV embolization (both failed)
Sep 2013 - R liver resect, 25d hosp (liver failure/delirium, lung emboli, encephalopathy), no living cancer (pCR)
2014/15 - recovery, scopy: 2 polyps
2016 - new town/life
2018, scopy: 2 polyps
2018/20 low (1.0-1.4) CEAs/clean CTs: 4x2014, 6x2015-17, 3x2018-20
next June 2021!
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby tammylayne » Mon Aug 15, 2016 7:11 pm

Hugs,,,many, many gentle hugs.......(((((((( )))))))

I have thought about you and your husband often,,,and will be thinking of you both now.
51 F
'06 Stage 1 CC,
'10 Stage 3 Rectal

"You never know how strong you are until you have to become your own hero."
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chixter
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby chixter » Mon Aug 15, 2016 7:51 pm

So sorry for your loss. Be brave, physical death cannot break spiritual bonds. Hugs for you,

Greg
ImageFather/Caregiver to beautiful 25 y/o daughter with mCRC Stg 4
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Nik Colon » Mon Aug 15, 2016 10:02 pm

I am so sorry :(
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Hanksy
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Hanksy » Tue Aug 16, 2016 1:58 pm

:-( xxxxxxxxxxx
My Husband, Age 42 (Father to two children both < 10 years old)
DX: (RC)
Tumor Location: Lower rectum, and 7cm from anal verge.
Tumor type: Adenocarcinoma;
Tumor size (5 cm)
Tumor grade: G2: Moderately differentiated (intermediate grade)
Stage IVB
Positive lymph nodes: Several Pararectal
Mets: Innumerable Spots on Liver & 2 small spots on Lung
Baseline CEA 1833/6308/5558/latest 1620
KRAS Mutation
Chemotherapy (if any): 5FU & Avastin (11 treatments in as of 10/10/16)
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Danieljt » Tue Aug 16, 2016 6:34 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. May your DH RIP.
70 male stage 3b cc
Dx 5/9/14
Resection 7/1/14
dx 9/14
65 yr wife DLCl
Sct 3/21/19 Ned last 8 mo.
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Cowgirl918
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Cowgirl918 » Wed Aug 17, 2016 1:07 pm

So sorry for your loss and the toll that all of this has taken on you and your family. I understand that you still have a very long road ahead as you deal with the pain and chaos that remains. Praying for you and your family.
HX Colon Polyps Villious and Tubillovillous
12/29/15 Colonoscopy/Endoscopy - Ascending Colon Mass- Hemicolectomy Scheduled
1/17/2016 Right Hemicolectomy Cancelled
1/25/2016 CT No evidence of other disease
2/12/2016 EMR-ascending colon mass 80%
8/12/2016 EMR #2 ascending colon mass curative
8/13/16 NED
7/26/2023 Neuroendocrine mass small bowel, two mesenteric lymph nodes
9/1/2023 Small bowel resection jejunum and lymph nodes removed mesentery
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Annemiek
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby Annemiek » Sun Aug 21, 2016 11:38 am

So sorry, he will live on in your heart and memories, without the pain and suffering. Strength and peace for you and yours!!
Annemiek

43 yr mum of a girl aged 7
10/2014 coloncancer stage IIIc
11/2014 HIPEC, tumor removed + 12 positive out of 60 ln
hysterectomy, abdominal lining partly removed
Peridonitus, stoma fitted, 6 abcesses drained in abdomen
MSS, kras
3/2015 Folfox, someones playing kill Bill inside me
9/2015 finished 12 rounds,
First scan results: NED!!!!!!!!!
4/2016 ct scan: NED!!!
7/2016 ultrasound: NED
10/2016 cr scan: NED
5/2017 ultrasound: NED 2,5 yrs!
CEA 8/2017 1.8 stable.
CT scan 11/2017 NED! 3 yrs
CEA 1.9
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Re: It came to me this afternoon....I hate

Postby stu » Sun Aug 21, 2016 4:49 pm

Sending love to you at this painful time of parting.
Much love Stu
supporter to my mum who lives a great life despite a difficult diagnosis
stage4 2009 significant spread to liver
2010 colon /liver resection
chemo following recurrence
73% of liver removed
enjoying life treatment free
2016 lung resection
Oct 2017 nice clear scan . Two lung nodules disappeared
Oct 2018. Another clear scan .
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