Olivia,
I am so sorry about your mom's passing. Hugs and love to you (((((((Olivia)))))))
She will be in heaven and watching over you, and loving you!
Take good care of yourself, and hope your recovery from surgery is speedy and smooth.
Sha
Cherish
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Stanfordmom
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Re: Cherish
DX 4/2/2014 at 44, stage 4, mets liver and ovaries
Mom to 2 boys
Three surgeries, HAI pump and lots of chemo
fighting!
Mom to 2 boys
Three surgeries, HAI pump and lots of chemo
fighting!
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WifeOfMike
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Re: Cherish
Dearest Olivia,
I am SO very sorry to hear of your mom's passing.
Losing your parent is a hard blow- I still feel the huge loss of my daddy in 2012
Hope YOU are healing from your recent surgery darling girl
I will light candles tonight in both of your honor
(((Gentle BIG HUG)))
Vicki
I am SO very sorry to hear of your mom's passing.
Losing your parent is a hard blow- I still feel the huge loss of my daddy in 2012
Hope YOU are healing from your recent surgery darling girl
I will light candles tonight in both of your honor
(((Gentle BIG HUG)))
Vicki
Bad Ass WIFE
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS
Re: Cherish
singingholly wrote:My mom died this morning at 8.30.
It has been painless and I hope peaceful... so it seemed. Though sad, so terribly sad.
I'm so very sorry, Olivia. I also recently lost my Mom, and I'm still sort of in a daze about it. Now mind you,..my Mom was almost 98 years old, and we had expected her to go soon. But I guess I actually wasn't as prepared for it, as I thought I was. And one time she told me about when HER mom passed (my grandmother was 98 as well, when she passed). I will never forget what my Mom said about it, she said:
"It just takes a long, long time to get over the most strange feeling that your mom isn't here in this present world anymore"
And that's exactly what I go around feeling. I just can't seem to wrap my head around the idea of mom not being here in this material world, like she's always been all my life. Thoughts of her and memories just swirl into my head at the oddest times,........
sending you prayers and good thoughts at this time....
T4a-Nx-M0 cc (perforated colon) Septic shock
2/19/13 emergency surgery/colostomy
4/13/13 colostomy reversed (reconnected!)
1/22/14 folfox completed
3/3/14 CT Scan NED
4/15/16 CEAs still low
2/19/13 emergency surgery/colostomy
4/13/13 colostomy reversed (reconnected!)
1/22/14 folfox completed
3/3/14 CT Scan NED
4/15/16 CEAs still low
Re: Cherish
Sorry for your loss Olivia.
Stage IVb age 37 Nov11
FOLFOX+Avastin, Xeloda+Avastin
1 year NED
regorafenib Oct13-Feb14
lymph node, lung, spine, rib and liver mets
GNAQ Q209P mutation > Mekinist Jul14
Radiation bone mets Aug14
Pain>hospital Oct14
FOLFIRI Nov14 >
Home Xmas 14
FOLFOX+Avastin, Xeloda+Avastin
1 year NED
regorafenib Oct13-Feb14
lymph node, lung, spine, rib and liver mets
GNAQ Q209P mutation > Mekinist Jul14
Radiation bone mets Aug14
Pain>hospital Oct14
FOLFIRI Nov14 >
Home Xmas 14
Re: Cherish
Dear Olivia,
I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you, your family and friends who loved your mom.
Sending gentle hugs and hoping you are taking good care of yourself as well.
Sue
I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you, your family and friends who loved your mom.
Sending gentle hugs and hoping you are taking good care of yourself as well.
Sue
Daughter to Dad age 67 @dx, Dec. 2013 (now 73)
Stage IV cecum, 4 liver mets, CEA 21.8
MSS, KRAS mutant (G13D), MLH1 mutant (V384D), and TP53 mutant (G245S)
1/14 FOLFOXIRI, 2x
2/14 FOLFOX, 1x
3/14 Right hemicolectomy, 2/38 nodes
4/14 FOLFOX, 4x
8/14 Liver resection
9/14 Liver tumor growth: microwave ablation
10/14 FOLFIRI, 6x
1/15 NED
2/16 8 to 10 lesions in lungs
3/16 Avastin + 5FU, 72x
4/19 Growth in lungs, lymph nodes. FOLFIRI + Avastin, 4x (CEA 12.4)
7/19 Started Stivarga + Opdivo
10/19 Start Hospice
Stage IV cecum, 4 liver mets, CEA 21.8
MSS, KRAS mutant (G13D), MLH1 mutant (V384D), and TP53 mutant (G245S)
1/14 FOLFOXIRI, 2x
2/14 FOLFOX, 1x
3/14 Right hemicolectomy, 2/38 nodes
4/14 FOLFOX, 4x
8/14 Liver resection
9/14 Liver tumor growth: microwave ablation
10/14 FOLFIRI, 6x
1/15 NED
2/16 8 to 10 lesions in lungs
3/16 Avastin + 5FU, 72x
4/19 Growth in lungs, lymph nodes. FOLFIRI + Avastin, 4x (CEA 12.4)
7/19 Started Stivarga + Opdivo
10/19 Start Hospice
Re: Cherish
I am so sorry to hear about your mother, but it sounds like it was peaceful. I am so impressed with your positive attitude and then to be dealing with this with your mother as well. I am sure she was very special --- as is her daughter. Peace. Lois
63 yo F
Colon resection Sept. 2010
pT3N0M0 Stage 2A
Medullary Tumor 6.5cm long
Lymphovascular invasion
Lynch negative
12 FOLFOX 11/2010 to 5/2011 8 w/Oxi
NED so far
Colon resection Sept. 2010
pT3N0M0 Stage 2A
Medullary Tumor 6.5cm long
Lymphovascular invasion
Lynch negative
12 FOLFOX 11/2010 to 5/2011 8 w/Oxi
NED so far
Re: Cherish
Oh, I am so very sorry for your loss. So very sorry.
Jean
Jean
Dx Rectal Cncr 5/12
Stage III
5 weeks Chemo (5FU) & Radiation completed
LAR with temporary ileostomy 9/12, complete response
Began FOLFOX 10/12. oxil reduced after tx 1, eliminated after tx 2. Now 5FU.
Finished 1/13
Ileostomy reversal 5/13
Stage III
5 weeks Chemo (5FU) & Radiation completed
LAR with temporary ileostomy 9/12, complete response
Began FOLFOX 10/12. oxil reduced after tx 1, eliminated after tx 2. Now 5FU.
Finished 1/13
Ileostomy reversal 5/13
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chrissyrice
- Posts: 1171
- Joined: Thu Sep 23, 2010 8:44 am
- Location: Atlanta, Georgia
Re: Cherish
Olivia, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Big hugs and hope you know how loved you are.
Chrissyrice
Chrissyrice
DX 10-31-09 Surgery 12-1-09 Sigmoid Colon
Stage IIIb T3,N2,MX; Chemo Feb 2010-Aug 2010; 4 rounds Folfox; 8 rounds 5FU +LV
12/2010 PET/CT Scan, Cancer Free
7/2012 CT Scan NED 2 years
10/2013 NED 3 years
8/2014 NED 4 years
Recurrence 6/2015: iliac lymph node(s)
8/2015 Surgery: 3 cm tumor removed+iliac artery graft
3/2016 CT Scan Stable
6/2016 Stable
9/2016 Stable
12/2016 Stable
3/2017 Stable
Recurrence 6/2017
12/2017 Surgery removed all cancer w/ clean margins
07-27-2018 Cancer-free for 7 months
Stage IIIb T3,N2,MX; Chemo Feb 2010-Aug 2010; 4 rounds Folfox; 8 rounds 5FU +LV
12/2010 PET/CT Scan, Cancer Free
7/2012 CT Scan NED 2 years
10/2013 NED 3 years
8/2014 NED 4 years
Recurrence 6/2015: iliac lymph node(s)
8/2015 Surgery: 3 cm tumor removed+iliac artery graft
3/2016 CT Scan Stable
6/2016 Stable
9/2016 Stable
12/2016 Stable
3/2017 Stable
Recurrence 6/2017
12/2017 Surgery removed all cancer w/ clean margins
07-27-2018 Cancer-free for 7 months
Re: Cherish
So sorry ., be strong.
Retchel
Retchel
wife of Stg 4 SRC
Diag.'12-2013(rd+Xeloda+oxi)
04/16/14 Clear CT-
8/25/14Kidney blockd nepro.
Rec. lung 1 enlrg. Abdomen
Inoperable/incurable /Chemo for life
11/21/14 Xeloda+Irinetocan 6x
hoping for a bright sunny day
Diag.'12-2013(rd+Xeloda+oxi)
04/16/14 Clear CT-
8/25/14Kidney blockd nepro.
Rec. lung 1 enlrg. Abdomen
Inoperable/incurable /Chemo for life
11/21/14 Xeloda+Irinetocan 6x
hoping for a bright sunny day
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singingholly
- Posts: 1133
- Joined: Thu Feb 27, 2014 3:37 am
- Location: Northern Italy
Re: Cherish
Thank you all guys... This is the end of a lon struggle, a seven years long one as she was affected by a neurologic disease called MSA, pancreatic cancer has been just the last act.
Now the struggle is over, and it's like to find a beach after a shipwreck. I miss her dearly but this enormous effort is over, and now my family will have some breath and some rest. Always missing her... and looking for her at every step, in everything... forever I guess.
Now the struggle is over, and it's like to find a beach after a shipwreck. I miss her dearly but this enormous effort is over, and now my family will have some breath and some rest. Always missing her... and looking for her at every step, in everything... forever I guess.
Dec2011 sigm IIIst res T3N1(2/18)M0 Xelox
Oct2012 5liv.mets Dec 2012 liv.res
Jan2013 1liv.met Folfiri+avastin
Jul2013 liv.res Folfiri+/av
Feb2014 10+2lu.mets & 1abd node Folfoxiri+SBRT
Sep2014 Res rx l. BUT spot on diaph:SBRT
Dec2014 3+6lu.mets.Immuno
Oct2012 5liv.mets Dec 2012 liv.res
Jan2013 1liv.met Folfiri+avastin
Jul2013 liv.res Folfiri+/av
Feb2014 10+2lu.mets & 1abd node Folfoxiri+SBRT
Sep2014 Res rx l. BUT spot on diaph:SBRT
Dec2014 3+6lu.mets.Immuno
Re: Cherish
Olivia,
i miei pensieri e le mie preghiere sono rivolti a te.
Accetta le mie condoglianze e NON smettere di lottare.
Un abbraccio forte forte
Nicoletta
i miei pensieri e le mie preghiere sono rivolti a te.
Accetta le mie condoglianze e NON smettere di lottare.
Un abbraccio forte forte
Nicoletta
Re: Cherish
You have so much to deal with and then this! I'm so sorry. I wish you peace.
Julia
Julia
DH Chris, 50, Dx Nov '10 Stg 4
cardiac arrest from 5-FU
Iri/Erbi, RFA, liver/colon resection, more Iri/Erbi
Oct14-Feb15 clinical trial
SIRT Apr15-unsuccessful
Stopped treatment May15
Hospice July15
Passed 8/15/15
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/chrisandjulia
cardiac arrest from 5-FU
Iri/Erbi, RFA, liver/colon resection, more Iri/Erbi
Oct14-Feb15 clinical trial
SIRT Apr15-unsuccessful
Stopped treatment May15
Hospice July15
Passed 8/15/15
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/chrisandjulia
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WifeOfMike
- Posts: 1495
- Joined: Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:53 pm
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- Location: San Diego, California
Re: Cherish
Olivia,
I KNOW what you mean.... lost daddy Oct 2012 on his 96th birthday
I dedicated a post here to him.... and I still "feel his presence" & miss him dreadfully
WifeOfMike » Sun Aug 10, 2014 4:41 pm
Re: WHY I am Waging War on Cancer........I dedicate this post to my FATHER: ......"Sky King" was one of my dad's nicknames
viewtopic.php?f=1&t=47522&p=353720&hilit=sky+king#p353720
I am sure he is taking your momma for a ride in the skies above us right now
I see them laughing, young, pain free and watching over all of us
much love,
Vicki
I KNOW what you mean.... lost daddy Oct 2012 on his 96th birthday
I dedicated a post here to him.... and I still "feel his presence" & miss him dreadfully
WifeOfMike » Sun Aug 10, 2014 4:41 pm
Re: WHY I am Waging War on Cancer........I dedicate this post to my FATHER: ......"Sky King" was one of my dad's nicknames
viewtopic.php?f=1&t=47522&p=353720&hilit=sky+king#p353720
I am sure he is taking your momma for a ride in the skies above us right now
I see them laughing, young, pain free and watching over all of us
much love,
Vicki
Bad Ass WIFE
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS
Hubs: CRC IVA,T3, N0, M1A
Resect/LN Mets 10/12
Folfox4/Avastin 11/12-5/13
Folfiri/Erbitux 6/13-10/13
Stivarga 12/13-4/14
Trial 4/14-/14
Trial 8/14-11/14
HOME Hospice 11/17/14
Guardian Angel 1/1/15
Cost of HOPE? PRICELESS
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jens22
- Posts: 1013
- Joined: Wed Jun 09, 2010 9:26 am
- Facebook Username: jspirio
- Location: Long Island, NY
Re: Cherish
Prayers and Strength Oliva!! You are an amazing daughter.
Colonoscopy 3/10 for ? hemmorrhoid.
Diag Colon Cancer 3 days later
Colon Ressection 3/30/10
Stage 3B 5/14 Nodes positive.
Power Port and 7 months of Chemo
Port removed 11/11
8 negative Cat Scans..... 10 years cancer free and Discharged from Sloane Kett!!
Diag age 47 , now 57 Mom of 3 boys.
Diag Colon Cancer 3 days later
Colon Ressection 3/30/10
Stage 3B 5/14 Nodes positive.
Power Port and 7 months of Chemo
Port removed 11/11
8 negative Cat Scans..... 10 years cancer free and Discharged from Sloane Kett!!
Diag age 47 , now 57 Mom of 3 boys.
Re: Cherish
I'm so sorry for your loss, Olivia. Hugs, and prayers for you and your family.
Cj
Cj
DX Stage IIIb RC, T3N1M0, April 2010, 51
6 wks Xelox/rad 6/10
resection, temp illeostomy 8/10 Complete response!
12 rounds FOLFOX for clean up 9/10, Allergic to Oxi, started Xeloda only 12/10
Ileo takedown 9/28/11
4/2020 NED
6 wks Xelox/rad 6/10
resection, temp illeostomy 8/10 Complete response!
12 rounds FOLFOX for clean up 9/10, Allergic to Oxi, started Xeloda only 12/10
Ileo takedown 9/28/11
4/2020 NED
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