Postby CRguy » Sun Sep 07, 2014 3:49 pm
As always Belle a very astute look inside the "person inside the disease" as I like to say.
Caring for and looking out for others is talked about a lot on here. While we pay lip service to being kind to ourselves … as you noted, that doesn't always come so easily. Best advice I ever got was from a psychologist who said " You only ever have ONE nervous system to look after in life … your own." Being a poster child for any given human triumph may not be in the cards for most of us folks, and those who expect us to be their poster child just don't get it.
Being kind to yourself is tough, and however we may find the path that leads to forgiveness is the best path we have, here, today with what we are dealing with … whether from cancer or not, and we have to own it as OUR own path.
I spoke with you in PM, in another context, about my granddaughter singing "Let It Go" a while ago, and seeing that little blonde munchkin selling the performance of a lifetime ….. I chose to "let it go" as well.
The only person you can truly answer to is the one you face each morning in the mirror.
" Is this the best day I can have for me ? "
If No, then accept it or do something about it.
if Yes, then live it like you own it, because either way it is still the only today you will ever have.
Tomorrow ?… well that is an other question entirely !
Cheers and Harmony my friend
I-FIVES on the Journey
CRguy
Caregiver x 4
Stage IV A rectal cancer/lung met
17 Year survivor
my life is an ongoing totally randomized UNcontrolled experiment with N=1 !
Review of my Journey so far