My love has passed on

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skypup
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby skypup » Sun Aug 17, 2014 7:33 am

To you, Kathleen, and all of your loved ones, my deep sympathy and a wish for the peace of good memories. I am so sorry.

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cashmere
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby cashmere » Sun Aug 17, 2014 7:58 am

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, please accept my condolences and I will pray for you and your family. Pearl
Stage III
Diagnosed 4/07 at 51
36 rad/24/7 chemo bag
surg 9/07
6 mon chemo w/48 hr bag
ileo reversal 5/08
NED since 9/07!!
Just resolved my 13th blockage
Been able to control blockage issues with fiber supplements!!

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elise
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby elise » Sun Aug 17, 2014 8:12 am

((((HUGS))))

Be kind to yourself Kathleen. You deserve weight off your shoulders XOX

Elise
2012
Feb - Stage 2 (T3 N0 M0) CC @ 30
Mar - R hemicolectomy, 18 LN
May-Nov 6 - Chemo (8 Xeloda)
2013
Feb - NED
2014
Feb - NED
May - Stage 4 - 1 liver met @ 32
Jun - Liver resection
Oct - CLEAN SCAN
Aug-Jan - FOLFOX 5 rounds, 5FU X 6
2015
Ap, Oct - NED
2016
Mar - NED

Laurettas
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Laurettas » Sun Aug 17, 2014 8:46 am

I am so sorry, Kathleen, for your and your family's loss of Dick. There is so much that you will experience in the weeks and months ahead that might confuse and frighten you. If that is the case, I encourage you to find a widow's group, either on line or in your community. Those who have gone through what you have experienced will be able to understand and help in a way that others are just not capable of. I so wish I would have done it earlier. May God's peace surround you in the coming days.
DH 58 4/11 st 4 SRC CC
Lymph, peri, lung
4/11 colon res
5-10/11 FLFX, Av, FLFRI, Erb
11/11 5FU Erb
1/12 PET 2.4 Max act.
1/12 Erb
5/12 CT ext. new mets
5/12 Xlri
7/12 bad CT
8/12 5FU solo
8/12 brain met
9/12 stop tx
11/4/12 finished race,at peace

lauragb
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby lauragb » Sun Aug 17, 2014 8:57 am

Light, love and prayers to you at this difficult time.

Hugs all around.

Laura
RC 3B 7/2011 @ 53
Chemoradiation 5 weeks 8/11
LAR-Hysterect-temp ileo
pCR, 0/23 nodes
Folfox 1/12, Xeloda 2/12 to 5/12
Reversal 5/12
SBO,lysis of adhesions 12/12
NED 11/12, 11/13, 6/16

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raym
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby raym » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:12 am

My sympathies and thank you for sharing the details of your's and Dicks's experiences with this disease.
3/11 IIIC +/FOLFOX
4/12 HIPEC
6/12 Chmo/Rad
9/12 XELIRI+Avast/Zltra
9/13 Plvic Absc,stpd chemo
11/13 Tumr rmvd frm Lap Port incis
12/13 Xeloda
1/14 Cardiac Issue no Xeloda/5FU
3/14 Irinotecan
6/14 Stopped chemo
8/14 Clin Trial
9/14 Infectn - Stpd Trial

Elizmed
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Elizmed » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:16 am

Kathleen, I'm very sorry for your loss.
My sincere sympathy to you & family.
57 F DX 8/13 Colon/PancreaticIV
9/13- Surgery remove spleen,partial pancreas tail,partial left kidney
10/13- Gemzar+Abraxane
11/13- Avastin+FOLFOX 6
3/14- Hysterectomy
4/14- Avastin Xeloda
8/14- Folfiri-Vectibix
10/14-Gemzar Abanxane

hart2hart
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby hart2hart » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:18 am

Dearear Kathleen-

I know Dick will be watching over you Kathleen.You are so brave and wonderful.
Everytime you see a double-rainbow I hope it time it brings a smile to you.

You and Dick had a glorious life, with your beauitiful family and friends. In time, I would love to
hear some charming Dick stories - Hey, Maybe (down he road) we could get Bev, juliej, cherie, mymom, badass,
deann, amy and all to come visit and pamper you!!! I know many here admire you Kathleen -- how cool would that be
to meet you, share in Dick stories and PAMPER YOU!!! I just love the idea.

Kathleen - We all LOVE you here - BIGTIME!! I am sending you many hugs right now. I hope you caught them.



Julie and Pete
Stamford, CT




Julie H
Stamford, CT
Pete (hubby) Stage 3 VLRC - 11/11
Chemo/Rad/Ace Surgeon - 11/11 - 4/12
Oxi/Xeloda (Severe Toxicity to OXI) - 5/12 - 6/12
5Fu Only - 8/12 - 2/13
Liver Resection/Hai Pump/Folfiri/FUDR - 10/13 - 5/14
Lung Ablation (MSKCC) - 12/31/2014
Xeloda through 4/2015
NED - 1/2015 - To Current

tammylayne
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby tammylayne » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:29 am

Kathleen...I am so sorry for your loss. May Dick's love and all your memories of your many glorious years together as a couple and a family bring you some comfort at this time.

Sending you and your family many, many gentle hugs...
51 F
'06 Stage 1 CC,
'10 Stage 3 Rectal

"You never know how strong you are until you have to become your own hero."

Cb75
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Cb75 » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:30 am

Kathleen,

I'm sorry to read this news today, but happy that your wonderful husband is now at peace. Seek comfort in the love you share...it's eternal.

cb
39y female Stage IV
diagnosed April 2012
sigmoid resect May 2012
liver resect Aug 2012
Folfox Oct 2012
lungs Sep 2013
R and L laser lung resection Nov 2013/Feb 2014
FOLFIRI and Avastin Apr 2014 ongoing...

jean60
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby jean60 » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:54 am

I am so very sorry. Jean
Dx Rectal Cncr 5/12
Stage III
5 weeks Chemo (5FU) & Radiation completed
LAR with temporary ileostomy 9/12, complete response
Began FOLFOX 10/12. oxil reduced after tx 1, eliminated after tx 2. Now 5FU.
Finished 1/13
Ileostomy reversal 5/13

peanut_8
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby peanut_8 » Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:01 am

Kathleen, very sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you and your family.
female, diagnosed Jan 14, RC stage 2a, age 56
MSS
April 14, 28 chemo/rad with Xeloda
June 14 adjuvant Xeloda 6 rounds
currently NED

deb1223
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby deb1223 » Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:22 am

My heart aches for you and your family. May God's peace be with you.

Debbie
52 Yr. old Female, DX July 2010
Stage IV CC, 21 mets to liver, 1 to lungs
12 Rounds Folfox
To date no surgeries
Enlarged spleen
Been on Avastin only since Mar. 2011
I WILL SURVIVE WITH GOD'S HELP!

Mojo
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Mojo » Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:24 am

So sorry for your loss ! We are here for you.
colon cancer stage 3 2n0mets 2002
cancer returns march 2010
emerg brain surgery, chemo may 2010 sterotactic radiation april 2010

progression of tumors march 2011 new chemo camptosar leukovorin 5fu avastin
Kenny age 58/died 11/21/11

Val*pal
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Val*pal » Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:27 am

I am so sorry for your loss.
DH dx'ed May '11, age 62
Jul '11: resection Stage IV
10/11: 6 mo Folfox
8/12:thyr canc, surg/tx
2/13: peri mets
2/13: Firi/Avas
6/13: Ok
8/13: break
10/13: Lung, peri, mets
10/13: Firi/Erb
1/14: Erb Fail; spread
5/14: Tx stopped
6/20/14: At rest


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