My love has passed on

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Guinevere
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Guinevere » Sun Aug 17, 2014 6:44 pm

Bless your heart, Kathleen. While I know you're relieved he's no longer in pain and agony, you're probably wondering how you're going to get through the next hour much less the day. Just know you're in our prayers and, like dealing with the hated cancer, it's one step at a time. I'm praying for you to be comforted and see mercy and grace as the days go on. You know we're truly here to rant to, cry to and laugh with.

God bless ~
Gwen
Hrt atk - Feb 11
CRC4 DX - Apr 11
APR liver rsct, procto - Jul 11
Folfox/Avastin - Sep 11
Xeliri - Nov 11
Iritux - Jun 12
Break - Jan - Mar 13
Iritux - Mar 13
Stivarga - Aug 13
Folfiri - Oct 13
Exhausted treatment options - May 14

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ziggymonster
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby ziggymonster » Sun Aug 17, 2014 6:51 pm

I am so sorry for your loss...my prayers are with you and your family and friends at this most difficult time,
DX advanced prostate cancer 2002
2014 still fighting mPca , failed surgery, radiation, hormone
DX Stage IIIa Rectal Cancer 12/12 1 of 12 nodes +
LAR permanent colostomy 1/13
Folfox 2/13 - 7/13 clear CT CEA 1.2
7/14 liver met chemo the resect in Oct
6/15 2 pos lung mets watching for now

coloradowalt
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby coloradowalt » Sun Aug 17, 2014 6:56 pm

My condolences on your loss. May you and yours be at peace.
DW 53
12/13 DX Stage IV liver, Peritoneal and LN
12/13 Colon resection
02/14 FOLFOX with Avastin (thru 08/06)
08/26 Aborted liver resection
09/22 FOLFIRI
09/26 Obstruction, massive tumor (pelvic floor and left abdomen)
10/02 Our journey ends

Peloton
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Peloton » Sun Aug 17, 2014 7:03 pm

Kathleen -

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been following your posts and your husband's journey since I started lurking here in August 2010. I admired the bond that the two of you shared and your husband's strength inspired me. You were a wonderful caretaker and I will keep you in my thoughts.
Diagnosed Stage 3 rc; 30 y/o M - 8/10
Chemo Rad - 8/10 through 10/10
FOFLOX 4 rounds - 10/10 through 12/10
LAR - 1/11; 12 out of 13 nodes positive, stage 3c; T4N2M0; temp ileo
FOXFOX 8 rounds, 6 w/ Avastin - 2/11 through 5/11
Ileo reversed - 7/11
NED

ann13
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby ann13 » Sun Aug 17, 2014 7:45 pm

Kathleen, I am so very sorry for your loss.
Mom diagnosed with Stage IV CC 10/13
tumor removed and colon resectioned 10/13
Chemo started 11/13 - error relating to pump caused death two days later
became my guardian angel:)

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Re: My love has passed on

Postby jobasar » Sun Aug 17, 2014 8:43 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll pray for peace, healing, and comfort. I wish I had more words but I don't.
dx. 12/24/08 w/stage 4 cc/1met to liver
C tumor removed on 01/02/09
Liver surg. on 04/09 clear margins
12 tx's chemo
9/09 NED
01/22/10/2 small lesions on rt. lobe liver.
Liver surgery 03/23/10/n
5/10, 8/10, 11/10, 5/11, 7/11, 9/11 NED

gep
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby gep » Sun Aug 17, 2014 9:44 pm

Kathleen and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Gloria
caregiver to Eli
dx 8/07 3B
7/09 - liver & celiac lym node
1/10 Liver Res & Lym nodes out
7/10 Back - Liver & other lym nodes
12/12 hit chemo wall
1/12 Clin Trial - MEK & AKT inhibitors
3/12 Trial failed/ spheres 4/12
7/30/13 Eli died.

mackswife
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby mackswife » Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:14 pm

Dear Kathleen,
My heart aches for you and your family in this time of loss. I pray the sweetest of memories, and the promise of eternal love and peace will bring you comfort in the days ahead.

Pattie
Husband IIIC;
7/12 - resection; 12 rounds folfox
CT/PET scans 4/13, 9/13 - NED
CT scan 3/14 - liver/LN mets
5/2/14- failed liver resection - peri. mets.
6 rounds of iri/avastin
8/26/14 - failed liver resect/HIPEC. dse. progression
9/14 - 3/15 - progression on chemo
3/23/15 - treatment stopped; working the bucket list

orcasres
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby orcasres » Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:46 pm

Peace and love to you and your family.
63 yo F
Colon resection Sept. 2010
pT3N0M0 Stage 2A
Medullary Tumor 6.5cm long
Lymphovascular invasion
Lynch negative
12 FOLFOX 11/2010 to 5/2011 8 w/Oxi
NED so far

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kirac
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby kirac » Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:53 pm

I'm glad he was at home, surrounded by loved ones. We're here for you.. please reach out when you need it.
Husband (Age 36) 1/13 Dx Stage 3B rectal cancer
3/13 Chemoradiation
6/13 Tumor removed, Temp ileo, 1/15 nodes
7/13 Chemo = Oxaliplatin, Xeloda
1/14 Reversal
7/14 NED, CEA 1.8
12/14 CLEAR CT scan! NED

http://kickingasscancer.com/

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CRguy
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby CRguy » Mon Aug 18, 2014 12:19 am

Kathleen808 wrote:He fought so hard for so long and was ready to go. I know I am going to need you in the days ahead and I know you will be here.

You can count on us and we will be here.

When my father passed in January I found solace in the community here, and was supported, sustained and comforted by it.
You were here for me.
I am here for you.

CRguy, with you on the Journey

Aloha
Caregiver x 4
Stage IV A rectal cancer/lung met
17 Year survivor
my life is an ongoing totally randomized UNcontrolled experiment with N=1 !
Review of my Journey so far

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abuttigi
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby abuttigi » Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:23 am

I'm so sorry for your loss. We'll all be ready for you when you need us.

Angie
Daughter to George (64)
Dx'ed Jan '11 Stage IV CC liver and peritoneum, KRAS mutant
Folfox
Folfori, Avastin
SIRT
Aug '12- progression in liver, mets to lungs
Oct '12- mets to bone, Regorafenib
Nov '12- Hospice
12/10/12- Became my beautiful angel in heaven

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Patience
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby Patience » Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:30 am

I, too, give my deepest condolences and wishes for moments of peace during these most difficult days.
"Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you.
Sweet dreams that leave all worries behind you."

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Re: My love has passed on

Postby jvaime21 » Mon Aug 18, 2014 6:07 am

sorry for your loss., deepest condolence to you and to your family., we are all here for you.,


aime
wife of Stg 4 SRC
Diag.'12-2013(rd+Xeloda+oxi)
04/16/14 Clear CT-
8/25/14Kidney blockd nepro.
Rec. lung 1 enlrg. Abdomen
Inoperable/incurable /Chemo for life
11/21/14 Xeloda+Irinetocan 6x
hoping for a bright sunny day

ecbreed
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Re: My love has passed on

Postby ecbreed » Mon Aug 18, 2014 7:58 am

Sorry for your loss.
Chris 43 years old
1/6/12 dx rc with liver mets
1/9/12-5/12 10 rounds FOLFOX
5/12-7/12 5 weekks 5-FU/rad
9/12-12/12 8 rounds leukovorin/ 5-FU
1//4/13 starting FOLFIRI
2/1/13 failed folfiri
2/8/13 started Eribitux


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