He's ready to go - my sweetheart

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Kathleen808
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He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby Kathleen808 » Tue Aug 12, 2014 2:04 am

Dear Friends,
We are still at the hospital and Dick has made it clear that he is ready to go. He has spoken to me, our daughter and his best friend all at one time and made it clear. Also, he spoke to the oncologist, me and our daughter and said he is done and wants to pass on. We have all told him that we will stay with him during this journey and that our goal for him is peace. I do not know if he has a few days or weeks. We are all heartbroken. I have felt it important for our 20 year old daughter to be part of these conversations as she needs to hear it from her father that he is ready for peace. Our pastor, one of his best friends has been here regularly and Dick is at peace with his passage to heaven and eternal love.
Please continue to pray for us. Thank you for staying by our side.

Aloha
Kathleen
Kathleen
DH 1/09 3c 51yr rsct
Folfx 3/09
1 l nd 9/09 Flfri Avstn
PET clr 6/10
Folfri Avstn 7/10
ND 10/10
1/11 lng mets Flfri Avastn
ND 2/12
9/12 Flfri Avastn
10/12 grwth lng mts Erbtx Avstn Irintcn
1/13 stabl
9/13 grwth
8/16/14 passed into eternal peace

skypup
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby skypup » Tue Aug 12, 2014 2:29 am

You are so full of grace, Kathleen, and such a good friend to your husband. What a wise and loving wife and mother! You have also been unfailingly kind to members of this forum. I just have to express my admiration for you.
I am so sorry for how hard this must be for you and your girls. My hope and prayer is that things be easy for Dick as he travels forward. May he be at peace and may you all have good time together as he transitions.
Much love to you.
Aloha, dear one.

Sharona
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby Sharona » Tue Aug 12, 2014 2:55 am

My heart is so heavy for you, Kathleen. While I am so glad that Dick is at peace, I know that this is heartbreaking for you and your daughters. Praying that God holds you in His arms and guides you through this difficult time. You are and have been such a wonderful wife and Dick is so fortunate to have you by his side.
Much love,
Sharon
Dx CRC mets to lung, brain
Craniotomy 11/12
CyberKnife 12/12
colostomy
FOLFIRI, FOLFIRI, avastin, Zaltrap
Stivarga
Multiple brain mets.
WBR and pallative pelvic radiation
Hospice 1/21/15
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sharonrauch

Nixma
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby Nixma » Tue Aug 12, 2014 4:42 am

I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.
42 F when diagnosed July 13
July 2013 Large tumor removed vie R hemi colectomy
no chemo
January 14 CEA doubles
Pet Lites up
Now Lymph nodes near pancreas cancerous
Stage 4 mcrc
Folfox 3/18/14
Hysterectomy 7/15/14
Resume Folfox 8/27/14

pukalania
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby pukalania » Tue Aug 12, 2014 5:21 am

Dear Kathleen
You are a true inspiration and most gracious sweet person I know ! Sending love and peace your way and hope in all that sadness There is a beam of sunshine for your incredible family
Hugs
wife 34 dx DH stage IV
Feb10 col res
May10 12 x FOLFOX
Aug12 tumor in sig colon,mets in liver
Aug12 Xeliri Ava
Oct12 xel celebrx rad
Feb13 liver/colon res
Sep13 ill reversal, fistula,
Folfiri SBRT,ADAPT ava
Apr 15 continued growth liver and lungs

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jgall
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby jgall » Tue Aug 12, 2014 5:47 am

Thank you, dear sister, for thinking if us during your time of need, we appreciate the update. I am so heartbroken for you and wish there was something we could do, but we are with you in spirit and holding you up. I wish you peace and love.

Namaste,
Julia
DH Chris, 50, Dx Nov '10 Stg 4
cardiac arrest from 5-FU
Iri/Erbi, RFA, liver/colon resection, more Iri/Erbi
Oct14-Feb15 clinical trial
SIRT Apr15-unsuccessful
Stopped treatment May15
Hospice July15
Passed 8/15/15
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/chrisandjulia

stu
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby stu » Tue Aug 12, 2014 6:43 am

Peace be his journey. Much love to you all.
Stu
supporter to my mum who lives a great life despite a difficult diagnosis
stage4 2009 significant spread to liver
2010 colon /liver resection
chemo following recurrence
73% of liver removed
enjoying life treatment free
2016 lung resection
Oct 2017 nice clear scan . Two lung nodules disappeared
Oct 2018. Another clear scan .

Val*pal
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby Val*pal » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:02 am

Many prayers for the both of you. May his passing be peaceful and full of love because love never dies.
DH dx'ed May '11, age 62
Jul '11: resection Stage IV
10/11: 6 mo Folfox
8/12:thyr canc, surg/tx
2/13: peri mets
2/13: Firi/Avas
6/13: Ok
8/13: break
10/13: Lung, peri, mets
10/13: Firi/Erb
1/14: Erb Fail; spread
5/14: Tx stopped
6/20/14: At rest

tammylayne
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby tammylayne » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:11 am

Sending your entire family much love and strongest thoughts of peace. And Dick...may this stage of your journey be gentle and pain free. Know that the love your family has for you will live on...forever.

Gentle hugs....
51 F
'06 Stage 1 CC,
'10 Stage 3 Rectal

"You never know how strong you are until you have to become your own hero."

vickitwo
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby vickitwo » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:17 am

((((((Kathleen))))))))
Vicki

DH Dx 1/2012 @ age 52
stage IV CC
transverse colon,omentum, cecum,liver,lungs,L5
9 rounds of Folfox, Avastin,
5FU/Leucovorin/Avastin
radiation tx to L5 and hips
Folfiri/Zaltrap
12/13/13 Folfox/Avastin
1/4/2014 passed away @ Hospice House- age 54

Delinda
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby Delinda » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:22 am

My heart goes out to you Dear Kathleen and your family. Dick is such an example and inspiration to us all. How I wish our CC family could be with you all, but know that we stand with you now and forever. Dick is ready and knows he will be welcomed and at last in comfort. We love you both. XXOXO, Delinda
62 yo wife & mom
4/14 dx stage IIIC colon cancer
4.5cm tumor, 9/28 nodes
temp colostomy, take down 6/14
7/14 start FOLFOX, 6 mo

ams5796
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby ams5796 » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:29 am

Kathleen, i wish you and Dick love and peace during this part of the journey. You have been a wonderful partner.




Ann
Stage 3C (or 4?) Rectal Cancer 01/07
2/10 lung mets
3/11 VATS
6/11 VATS
7/13 lung met
2/14 SBRT
NED 8/14
5/17 scan and MRI found treated spine met

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O Stoma Mia
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby O Stoma Mia » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:36 am

Kathleen - I sent you a PM

mackswife
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby mackswife » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:44 am

Dear Kathleen,

There is a quote from "Pilgrim's Progress" that I love...
"The name of the chamber was PEACE where he slept, until the break of day. And then he awoke and sang"

May Dick's chamber be enveloped in PEACE until that day that rises to song. And may the PEACE that passes all understanding, surround you and your girls in the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Pattie
Husband IIIC;
7/12 - resection; 12 rounds folfox
CT/PET scans 4/13, 9/13 - NED
CT scan 3/14 - liver/LN mets
5/2/14- failed liver resection - peri. mets.
6 rounds of iri/avastin
8/26/14 - failed liver resect/HIPEC. dse. progression
9/14 - 3/15 - progression on chemo
3/23/15 - treatment stopped; working the bucket list

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elise
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Re: He's ready to go - my sweetheart

Postby elise » Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:58 am

You're in my heart. I hope that Dick is comfortable through this stage of his journey.

Elise
2012
Feb - Stage 2 (T3 N0 M0) CC @ 30
Mar - R hemicolectomy, 18 LN
May-Nov 6 - Chemo (8 Xeloda)
2013
Feb - NED
2014
Feb - NED
May - Stage 4 - 1 liver met @ 32
Jun - Liver resection
Oct - CLEAN SCAN
Aug-Jan - FOLFOX 5 rounds, 5FU X 6
2015
Ap, Oct - NED
2016
Mar - NED


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