Nodak, I wouldn't make any plans for trips unless the planning is something that comforts and gives hope to your husband. What I would be doing is contacting hospice so you can be prepared for any pain or issues he may face in the next months.
With the tumors returning, growing and appearing during chemo and numbers going up as quickly as they are, I believe your husband has very little time left. Hospice is not just for last days..... I remember one of our members had hospice come in that morning, he went grocery shopping later that day and made a big pot of Chicken Soup for his families supper. Hospice can give you GOOD days and pain free days and good memories.
I'm sorry things are going so badly for your husband, but do realize that chemo doesn't CURE colon/ rectal cancer so Stivarga is just a possible time extender.
Talk with your husband. Would he rather have 5 months of feeling okay (with hospice's help) or 6.4 months of feeling awful? This drug sounds like the treatment can, in some cases, be worse than the disease itself.
People who took Stivarga lived an average of 6.4 months, compared with people given a placebo who lived an average of five months, the FDA said.
The most common side effects of the new drug included: weakness, fatigue, loss of appetite, diarrhea, mouth sores, weight loss, infection, high blood pressure and changes to the voice.
Stivarga was approved with a boxed label warning of the possibility of severe and fatal liver problems, the FDA said.
Stage III cc surgery 1/7/09. 12 tx FOLFOX
Stage IV PET = 1.5cm liver met. HR 4/11/12
14 years since dx and 11 years post liver resection.
Pronounced CURED and discharged by onc
“O Lord my God, I cried out to You, And You healed me.” Psalms 30:2