Hi,
Just a bit of background.. I was diagnosed with bowel cancer in December 2012, after being misdiagnosed several times with diverticulitis. Anyway.. After a 5 hour op I woke having had a total hysterectomy because my cancer had attached itself to pretty much my whole reproductive system which means forced and unexpected menopause. I also had an illeostomy and so a stoma bag attached.
After 6 months of chemo, a blood clot in my jugular due to my port getting blocked, clexaine injections twice a day for 3 months got the clot sorted out. Multiple ct scans and bloods done every fortnight, my stoma reversal done in August last year. I'm now cancer free, and my colon is boring with nothing to see in there.. Hallelujah!
I have lasting effects from the chemo.. Numb finger tips and feet, which means I'm walking differently and slower than before all this began. My hair has grown back in a weird straight style (was curly before treatment).
I'm trying to find my inner balance.. My chi. How do you find yourself again after all the trauma to your body. 7 ops in 12 months. I'm married to the most supportive and loving man ever.. My children are all grown and have been the best as have the rest of my family. But now I'm feeling better, still get exhausted sometimes, am exercising everyday by rowing 2kms on the ergo machine and swimming.
Can anyone tell me how long it will be before I feel a little normal again please. I've gained a huge amount of weight during chemo, the doc said the steroids will do that. How long do these "lasting effects" take to settle down?
Thanks.. That was a lot at once but you've all been through so much and support each other so wonderfully and unconditionally.. I'd just like to know what experiences with waiting to feel balanced again any of you have had.
Btw, I'm Australian so I hope you can understand my accent ok.
S.