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tdsamal
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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby tdsamal » Thu Dec 12, 2013 4:42 am

Kathy words cannot describe how I am feeling for you and your family. I was your secret Santa a couple of years ago and so enjoyed picking out some items for Blake and you. Please hold onto your memories during this difficult time as they will help you make it through. I will keep you in my thoughts in the coming days as I know this will be a difficult time for you and your kids.
Tammy
Dx st IV CC & colon resection 11/09
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Last recurrence December 2017

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby jacekica » Thu Dec 12, 2013 6:48 am

I just read obit and when I read it and saw his picture I see very happy and merry man, he has wonderful life, but so very short.
My sincere condolances for you and children, his parents and siblings, i am so very sad with such early passing of one of us. May he R.I.P.
Dx 2/11
surgery 5/11, T2N0MX, G2, SRC rectal ca, 22 cm removed
CT- numerous mets in abdomen - LN, 2 big ones on pancreas, one penetrated right urether. Surgery, they just take samples for PHD, 6 roundds 5FU, refuse further chemos

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby Guinevere » Thu Dec 12, 2013 8:13 am

What a wonderful obit! I am so saddened to read that Blake lost the cancer battle but it looks like he won the good life battle - however short it was. Kathy, you and the family are in my prayers for comfort, mercy and grace during this next days, weeks and months.

God bless ~
Guinevere
Hrt atk - Feb 11
CRC4 DX - Apr 11
APR liver rsct, procto - Jul 11
Folfox/Avastin - Sep 11
Xeliri - Nov 11
Iritux - Jun 12
Break - Jan - Mar 13
Iritux - Mar 13
Stivarga - Aug 13
Folfiri - Oct 13
Exhausted treatment options - May 14

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby barbara jayne » Thu Dec 12, 2013 4:40 pm

So very sorry to hear this Kathy,
Please accept my deepest sympathies,
Loving thoughts to you and your family.

Barbara.
DX. Colon Cancer (Cecum) stage 3
Right hemicolectomy Jan '08
2/22 L.nodes positive
Oxi and Xeloda
Xeloda discontinued
due to DPD enzyme deficiency
Lynch Syndrome
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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby jeroling » Thu Dec 12, 2013 7:05 pm

Deepest sympathy. He sounds like a wonderful man and husband. My heart goes out to all of you!
DH-58
Nov2013, +colonoscopy, Dec: partial Colectomy: T3N4M0.
Starting Folfox 1/9/14. Chemo completed June, 2014.
CT clear Dec 2014 & Aug 2015. But having N & V. CEA up to 5 (highest previously 0.9) some liver enzymes mildly elevated.
Sept 2015 - N & V from gastric erosions, and MRI shows "spots" in liver.
October: Upcoming PET scan, needle biopsy of liver, port re-insertion and chemo.

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby Kathleen808 » Fri Dec 13, 2013 12:19 am

Kathy my friend,
I am so very sorry that Blake has passed on. You were always so faithful by his side and fully supporting him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sending love.

Aloha,
Kathleen
Kathleen
DH 1/09 3c 51yr rsct
Folfx 3/09
1 l nd 9/09 Flfri Avstn
PET clr 6/10
Folfri Avstn 7/10
ND 10/10
1/11 lng mets Flfri Avastn
ND 2/12
9/12 Flfri Avastn
10/12 grwth lng mts Erbtx Avstn Irintcn
1/13 stabl
9/13 grwth
8/16/14 passed into eternal peace

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby SFLwife » Fri Dec 13, 2013 6:39 am

What a beautiful obituary. Blake sounded like a wonderful, loving man. I know your pain, Kathy, and may you take comfort in knowing Blake is now your guardian angel.

Susan
Wife & BFF DH 56 yo. DX 10/12
Chemo and trial
KRAS=wild
Tons of chemo
10-15-13 Gone with peace and much love...
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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby jens22 » Sat Dec 14, 2013 11:48 pm

I am so sorry to read this. Prayers to Kathy and her family
Colonoscopy 3/10 for ? hemmorrhoid.
Diag Colon Cancer 3 days later
Colon Ressection 3/30/10
Stage 3B 5/14 Nodes positive.
Power Port and 7 months of Chemo
Port removed 11/11
8 negative Cat Scans..... 10 years cancer free and Discharged from Sloane Kett!!
Diag age 47 , now 57 Mom of 3 boys.

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby so-scared » Sun Dec 15, 2013 12:22 am

My most sincere condolences. I am so very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace and may you find peace. Again, I am so very sorry and wish that I had some words to make things better for you but there are none.

(((HUGS)))

DeAnn
DH 51 yo
dx 5/16/11 stg 4 RC
mets both lobes liver & lung
6/11 chem/rad
FOLFOX 9-12/11
12/11 TME/liver resect/rfa (15 tumors)
more Folfox w/Avastin
5/12 innumerable mets liver
Folfox/Avas FAIL
9/12 FOLFIRI/Erb FAIL
HAI pump 12/12
Had to leave 5/23/14

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby samiya » Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:17 am

So sorry about your loss...hugs

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby hopeful » Mon Dec 16, 2013 6:24 pm

Kathy, I am so sorry. He fought a good fight and you were a wonderful caregiver. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Caregiver to husband diagnosed 11/09 stage IIIb colon cancer
Surgery 11/5/09
12 rounds FOLFOX beginning 12/18/09
Folfox finished 6/3/10
Last scan Jan 2015
NED since Dec. 2009

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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby NWgirl » Mon Dec 16, 2013 6:43 pm

What a wonderful obituary. Your family has my deepest sympathy.
Belle - "Don't Retreat - Reload"DX 10/07 Stage III Rectal
Surgery 11/07; 27 of 38 nodes
Perm Colostomy 8/11
12/10 recurrence lungs & LN's
VATS Jan 2011
Radiation Oct 2013
Chemo for Life
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Re: Blakeswife sad news

Postby Helen » Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:03 pm

Kathy I hope that you and your family are being enveloped in love and kindness during this most difficult of times.Please accept my deepest condolences.

Peace and Love
~Helen
My partner of almost 18 years ***Wife as of July 1 2013***Pam was dx in Nov 2011
Stage IV advanced mCRC
Nov 2011 colostomy
Feb 2012 Folfiri
March 2012 Erbitux
May 2012 3 blood clots
June 2012 Lovenox
May 2013 FOLFOX
Dec 19 2013 My beloved was set free


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