Hi! I have been lurking off and on, and finally decided to join in...
I am a 35 year old female, diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in April 2013, with liver and ovarian mets. When I was diagnosed, my colon tumor was non-obstructive, and my liver was in such bad shape, that I went straight to chemo. I did 12 rounds of Folfox/Avastin, finished that up last month, and now I am on "maintenance" Xeloda/Avastin, along with Celebrex. When I was diagnosed, I was pretty much told based on the extent of my liver mets, I would never be a candidate for resection, and the best I could hope for was a good enough response from chemo to buy a little more time. This was according to both my local oncologist and second opinion at Mayo in Rochester. However, never say never... After 6 months of chemo, I had a restaging PET w/CT, and my response was so good that I am now 'resectable.' The tentative plan is that I will do the Xeloda combo for a few months, rescan, and if all is stable, proceed to surgery. This all according to my local oncologist, I am yet to get 2nd opinion after the restaging PET. I have asked my local doc about where I should have surgery, and I wasn't real surprised when he said I could have it here (I almost feel like they have to say that - stay in their system) or I could go to Mayo if I want (which is about 4 hours from where I live.) He said I would likely need 2 surgeries, one to go in for the colon and ovarian mass, the second to go after the liver. I agree with the treatment this far - we know my cancer is highly aggressive. I was misdiagnosed in January with a gallbladder attack and "hemangiomas" on my liver (3.5 months before I was correctly diagnosed) and my liver tumors pretty much went crazy in that short amount of time - the main tumor went from about 5 cm to 11 cm between January and April.
Otherwise, my health is generally very good. I am a healthy weight, I exercise daily, eat pretty healthy - I can keep up with all of my daily demands without a crew of "helpers." I just feel like we are in so over our heads with all the cancer crap! It kind of came out of nowhere - I have zero family history of GI cancers, I feel like we are wandering around in the dark with how to deal with all of this.
Anyway, I guess I am looking for opinions about second opinions. I am going to start pursuing them after the holidays - I want to give my kids a great Christmas, and then get back to the business of killing cancer. After my diagnosis, I chose Mayo for my 2nd opinion basically due to geographic convenience. However, after getting used to the idea of the fact I have cancer, and doing some research, I am not so sure that would be where I would want to go now... It seems like a better bet would be MSK in New York. I am just wanting to hear about experiences with major cancer centers vs. local systems. Also I would love to hear about your journeys to resection and what treatments you have received. Anyway, any feedback would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks!!!!
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