I am a Barbie Butt
My stoma is George!- they took out 5 pounds of margin, muscles and rectum - but did not put mesh inside that area. The Void left from the removal and margins of all rectum stuff left a place that my vagina and bladder moved mostly in, so I pee in the direction of my butt.. I was given a dilatator to masturbate with when I completed radiation
it was to help this issue. I tried once and figured it was not for me. I was never going to have sex again..
so I let it go! So funny now... my caregiver is 6.5 blonde - blue eyed hunk but as gay as a diva. (I am getting an education in things I NEVER would have known about gay men).
I really don't think ""if ""you can have a reversal that they cut everything out (all muscles, lymph node,etc) and sewn up everything. It would be impossible as far as I know. They may have moved some things around (who knows) - I watched the surgery on YouTube (really scary stuff) but my surgery and radiation was the complete removal- thus void occurred.
I don't know why this didn't work and my cancer went into stage 4 after the Xeloda failed and caused 6 months of hell. oh well-