Postby Rheaeliza » Mon Sep 23, 2013 11:46 am
Sorry just venting here...
After 3 weeks in the hospital and two surgeries including HIPEC, hysterectomy, colon resection, temporary illeostomy, infections, collapsed veins, abscesses, leaks, no food for 3 weeks, drains, irrigations...ugh, I'm home!
I'm happy to be home, but everything is SO HARD!!! My HIPEC was August 26th, and my illeostomy was Thursday September 12th, so 1.5 weeks ago, also had a big drain and irrigation tube put in then to irrigate infection and abscesses outside of sigmoid colon.
Everything is hard...and usually I feel like I'm pretty tough. I rocked out 7 months of chemo, traveling, working on my feet the whole time, even went to some remote islands of the coast of Nicaragua during treatment. But this is SO different. I know I'm supposed to walk as much as I can, but it's so hard to go outside. I do laps around my apartment. I lose my breath easier, can't really walk and talk too easily.
Oy and this illeostomy, I don't know how to dress with it besides this pair of drawstring loungey pants I've been wearing for days. And as soon as I get better enough from this crap I have 2 more surgeries...liver resection and ostomy takedown.
How do you guys do it...those of you who have had so many surgeries and been doing this for years? Who work and exersize and socialize and travel with an ostomy? It all seems so hard and overwhelming. Like this giant giant mountain to climb and I can't even climb a molehill right now!
Thanks for letting me vent guys! I know in my head that this stuff gets easier, I guess I just didn't know how freaking hard and slow it would be!
12/7/12: 30 yrs. old, Dx stage 4b.mets to liver, ovary, nodes, ommentum.
7 months chemo, shrinkage!
8/26/13 HIPEC, colon resection,hysterectomy, appndx, gallbladder out.
9/12/13:leak in colon, temp. loop ileost, home 9/18
11/3/13: liver resect.
1/2014 Ostomy reversal, one week later, abcess surg., fistula, tpn.
No more chemo, NED since 11/13