blakeswife wrote:.......So, that's our update. I hope it's inspiring and not depressing. Blake has lived a very good life since diagnosis; this has not been a death sentence but a reminder to enjoy life & not sweat the small stuff.
It is always inspiring to me when we can take a positive step in engaging in our own future, decisions, treatments and really .... Own it !
Wherever this whole circus takes us .. We are still exactly there : for whatever reason, just where we need to be.
IF that means "no mas"
then celebrate that decision and make peace with it all.
Sometimes enough is truly enough.
I celebrate Blake's decision as just that very powerful energy which can set us free from all the fears and doubts.
Live with the peace of knowing what IS. Don't be dragged along with the uncertainty of "what if".
Hope this also makes sense to you both.
When I can find that Harmony, I will have succeeded in conquering the beast.
Your post is stirring up memories of some of my 2008 posts here :
" Cancer may well kill me..... but it will NEVER defeat me. "
In Harmony with you both
and always somewhere on some kind of a Journey