Postby ConnieSPK » Sat May 11, 2013 9:24 am
Hi Tiasha,
Thank you for being such a loving, caring daughter to your father. With that said, I have a word to say about your brothers (if you don't mind). You need to yell, scream, smack the back of their collective heads or whatever it takes to make them grasp the situation properly and the gravity of it. My own husband needed a "reality check" with regard to my cancer. Sometimes there's denial and avoidance (and fear) that keeps them away, as if you don't see it, it's not real, right? Anyway, I had to put in my two cents because you sound like you've got the world on your shoulders. You need to get your feelings out and expressed to them, whether they respond or not, at least you won't be holding all those emotions in along with taking care of your Daddy.
Good Luck to you and stay in touch
Connie
Dx08@54,StgIV Colon,Liver,Lung, ColonSurg,FOLFOX+Beva
09 LiverSurg
10 FOLFIRI+Beva
11 FOLFOX+Beva,ox reaction
12 Bi-lat LungVATS
13 New mets L lung FOLFIRI+Zaltrap,5FU reaction
14 Return mets L lung SBRT,successful
15 Lung Spots, Irinotecan