jeanette57 wrote:hum
no children - adopt- there are so many kids that want homes. If you want to use some's egg and hubby sperm then rent a womb (around 10,000) . so many options available. Note: read in England they give women free storage for eggs if their female parts are removed for what ever reason so they can have bio-kids.
Being a mom is a state of mind, love is all that is super important, food etc of course!
MrsOssie wrote:Hi everyone,
I haven't logged in for a while but wanted to check in. On March 25th was my one year anniversary of being NED (no evidence of disease). Doc assures me that the rest of the chemo and surgeries were just mopping things up. All scans since then have been clear and next one is April 9th. Feeling a bit nervous because I've been tired lately but hoping it's all good. Recent blood work was all clear.
I know I should be doing cartwheels around the place because I've reached this milestone but I seem to be in a bit of a funk. Maybe a delayed reaction to the rough year and a half that I've had. Struggling with weight gain post-chemo (despite exercising lots I just can't seem to shift this 10lbs), weird bowel movements (which are slowly improving since ileo reversal in Sept 2013) and the fact that everyone and their dog seems to be pregnant (and my lovely bro just had a baby that is simply adorable) and I'm going through menopause and facing the real prospect that I may never have children.
I am grateful to be here and refusing to let myself wallow or give in to bitterness. I don't want to be that person that is a misery to be around. I want to rejoice with my friends and family as they rejoice but am struggling with thinking of what I've lost (not just a chunk of colon).
There. Breathe. Rant over. Thanks for listening.
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