Chemo is the same at the big cancer center or at your local oncologist. The individual attention you get may differ with either one being a "better fit" for the patient. Many things go into the decision of who and where to get treatment from. I chose convenience and attention as my primary factors in originally making the decision. Went with my mothers' private oncologist because he's close to my house, he's intelligent, gives me the attention I require it when I do (along with all the other nurses and staff), is willing to admit when he doesn't know everything (and thus calls others), and I dig his personality. The chemo nurses there are wonderful. I could have been treated at Roswell Park (the country's original cancer hospital) and gotten all that big-center stuff. However the onc I met there was curt, manipulative, her way or the highway and not warm at all. The chemo center was a cattle-call with patients barely getting attention and I feared they wouldn't listen to anything about side effects, etc. When both oncologists said the same chemo treatment (folfox), I went running to my current onc. That said, when it came time for HIPEC, Roswell had a phenomenal surgeon able to perform the complicated procedure. He is wonderful and the surgery and research teams there are truly top-notch.
Other folks have had different experiences as there are so many centers/oncs/options. My general thoughts when deciding on care is to first determine if both choices CAN provide the care required. Next would probably be your comfort with the teams there. Not all personalities mesh, plain and simple, and if the Dr rubs you the wrong way, why bother dealing with it? There's probably someone else that can do the job. Location has something to be said for it too. Do you want to drive an hour each way twice every other week when you're worn down from chemo? Or would you rather go to the place 10-15 mins away?
Finally you should decide how much you want to take part in your care. Some folks really want to get their hands dirty with learning things, making decisions, etc. Others just want to smile and nod and do exactly what the Dr says. And of course every variation between the two extremes. As a general rule of thumb, you can go ahead and get treated at facilities of your choice in the local area if you're willing to keep good records for yourself. Even though it's 2013 and we can video chat with someone on the other side of the planet whenever we want, medical records sharing and transferring is in the STONE AGE because of our society's pervasive fear for individual security of medical records. They're still MAILING things
. That's a whole nother discussion but suffice it to say if you're willing to demand copies of EVERYTHING (reports, blood work, scans, notes, etc) when it's generated to keep your own medical history you can save yourself a lot of hassle when seeking treatment at multiple centers. If you're treated at a one-stop-shop major center, they're great at sharing records between the various departments and things work smoothly and the patient doesn't have to worry about that. I keep track of EVERYTHING done to me and have a whole medical file for that stuff which allows me to quickly jump from Dr to Dr across dispirate facilities and medical groups. That's just me, you may not want to do that.
11/13/09 5cm Stage IV 9/25 lymph nodes w/2cm peritoneal met at 29 YoA
12/15/09 LA right hemi-colectomy
6/16/10 Folfox
FINISHED8/10/10 Prophylactic HIPEC
10/9/10 got Married
Still NED and living life to the fullest
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