My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby fritts44 » Tue Sep 25, 2012 9:09 pm

Hi Becky. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. My thoughts & prayers will be with you and your family in the difficult days ahead.
Lee F
RC dx 12/16/10
resection & perm colo 12/17/10
8 rounds chemo, 28 rounds radiation
finished 8/26/2011
clean scope 9/20/2011
clean CT scan 12/26/2011

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby las » Tue Sep 25, 2012 11:19 pm


I thought I posted this morning but don't see my post. I am so sorry dear, I know it went fast and I am glad ur son was there to help you. I am sure you are tired.



Ps. Pm me any time when ur ready.
Fiance DX 6/27/11 CC IV w/liver mets,adrenal glnd,pet.
7/25/11 folfox
8/2/11 surg.colon wall removal of tumor
8/24/11 folfox ,3/12 5FU, 5/12 irinitecan failed, 7/12 didn't qualify regronfenib
8/13/12 Hospice, 8/18/12 married, died 9/10/2012

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby aussielones » Wed Sep 26, 2012 12:29 am

Becky I'm so sorry that Wayne's journey here is over. I know he's in heaven with NO CANCER and you will see him again. Now here's for the hard bit, but you are strong and we are all here for you. I hate cancer! Sending you love.
Dx 24/9/10
Cecum, liver, LN, lungs
Sg IV C.C inoperable
Folfiri, Xeloda ,FOLFOX. More FOLFIRI
Regorafinib nearly killed me. But I'm still alive! LOVE BEATS CANCER

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby jacekica » Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:27 am

I am so sorry for Wayne, it is too soon, although is comforting that he is no longer in pain, that he had nice pain-free leaving this earthly life, but it is so painful for you........
Dx 2/11
surgery 5/11, T2N0MX, G2, SRC rectal ca, 22 cm removed
CT- numerous mets in abdomen - LN, 2 big ones on pancreas, one penetrated right urether. Surgery, they just take samples for PHD, 6 roundds 5FU, refuse further chemos

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby CanadianGirl » Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:44 am

I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

06/08 gall bldr rmvd
06/08 rgt hemi, app rmvd
07/08 hemi, dx stg 3c
09/08-03/09 5FU 11 rds, neuropathy
06/10 hysterectomy,debullking,dx carcinomatosis, terminal
09/10 2 rds Xeloda
01/11 CR HIPEC colon rmvd
03/11 ileo rvrsl
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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby Peteswife » Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:50 am

Hi Becky! My deepest sympathies for you and your family!
All my love
After 8,5 years living with CRC, Pete passed away on 17/4/2012. We had lots of quality time, we said our goodbyes! I am at peace because he doesn't suffer anymore! He is now better off with the Lord! We will surely miss him very very much!!

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby Deirdre » Thu Sep 27, 2012 2:34 am


I am so so sorry to read this. You were a wonderful caregiver and I hope someone is taking care of you now

Daughter of loving dad, dx Stage IIIC Mar 10
Resect Apr 10. 1 lymph nodes positive
Heart history has ruled out treatments
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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby blakeswife » Thu Sep 27, 2012 9:00 am

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm sorry for what you've had to endure & hope you are finding peace knowing that Wayne is no longer suffering. AND, I hope you're letting your friends & family take care of YOU now.

Bless you,

DH Stage IV 10/07
Colectomy, Liver resection & RFA, 1/13 LN
12/07-5/08 Folfox/Avastin
7/09 recurrence-Peritoneum
9/09-12/09 Folfiri/Avastin
1/10-5/10 Xeloda/Avastin
9/10-current w/built in breaks

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby NedPlease » Thu Sep 27, 2012 10:18 am

So very sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace and comfort at this difficult time.
F-54- St 4- Ascend Colon, 2 Liver mets, Poorly dif, Mutant
6/10- Folfox
9/10- R Liver Resect/Colon/Gall/Appendix
11/10-3/11- Folfox
11/11- R Lung, 1 met, VATS
3/12- 9/12- Xeloda
2/12- 6/18 Clear Scans
6/19- first time no scan
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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby Guinevere » Thu Sep 27, 2012 11:09 am

I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray the Lord helps you through the coming days and sweet memories will be what comes to your mind when you think of him.
God bless ~
Hrt atk - Feb 11
CRC4 DX - Apr 11
APR liver rsct, procto - Jul 11
Folfox/Avastin - Sep 11
Xeliri - Nov 11
Iritux - Jun 12
Break - Jan - Mar 13
Iritux - Mar 13
Stivarga - Aug 13
Folfiri - Oct 13
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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby Nanette » Thu Sep 27, 2012 11:25 am

Dear Becky,

I am so sorry for your loss of your husband. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Husband, Bruce - diag. 12/07/08 at age 50
Stage IIIB CC, poorly diff, muc. adeno, sig. ring cell
Stage I bladder cancer
1 of 17 LN affected
Colonectomy 12/11/08
Finished chemo/rad on 8/19/09
Four years NED on 12/11/12 - Thank God!!
Livin' life!!!!!!

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby Sandy gma » Thu Sep 27, 2012 2:35 pm

Becky, I am so sorry. Thinking of you. Take care of yourself. It's been quite an ordeal for you and will take time for you to heal. One day at a time. I've been right where you are.


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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby wifenurse » Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:12 pm

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am glad his passing was peaceful. He was lucky to have such a wonderful caregiver to support him during his fight with cancer. Hoping your memories will comfort you at this time.
Wife of Jayson, diagnosed Oct 2009 CRC - age 39
Radiation & Chemotherapy Nov-Dec 2009
Colon & Liver resection Feb 2010 - Stage IV
Folfox + Avastin X 12 treatments - finished Aug 2010
NED 10/10, 1/11, 7/11, & 12/11

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby dianne052506 » Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:21 pm

Becky, I am so sorry for you loss. Thank you for sharing with us, not just the story of Wayne's illness, but the love story the two of you shared.
May 06 Stage IV CC: liver,ovarian mets
Oct 07 inoperable lung mets
Feb 08 - Apr'12 chemo
allergic to oxaliplatin, irinotecan
Aug '12-Feb'14 Genentech PD-L1/Avastin trial
Mar '14 -radiation to largest lung nodule
still recovering; looking at trials again

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Re: My Sweet Wayne is with Jesus

Postby Kathryn in MN » Thu Sep 27, 2012 11:37 pm

My condolences on your loss. I'm glad that you and other family were able to be with him and can support each other.
CRC AUG09 Age 47
Sig Res T4a N2a Mx, KRAS mut codon13
Mets bones & nodes
FOLFOX, FOLFIRI, Avastin, Radiation
Irinotecan, Zaltrap & STAR RFA
APR13 pleurisy & ascites - more chemo & draining

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