My sweet Wayne is very critcal!

[Anji]

Becky,
I am so very sorry to hear this. I know the fear that lives with you every second of every day. Try to focus on being his wife and not his caregiver now. Let hospice and friends and family help as much as they will. Lay with him. Talk to him. Cry with him. Touch him. Then touch him some more. Say everything that's in your heart. Everything. Don't let a moment pass because you are focused on caring for him.

Know that I am lifting you in prayer. Strength. Peace. Comfort for the lonely hours sitting at his bedside.

Anji

[Beatrice]

Dear Becky,
I am also sending prayers and warm thoughts to give you strength in
this hard and challenging time.May God's love embrace you and keep you
and your family safe.
love Beatrice

[jgall]

Becky. So sorry to hear this. Love and light to you through this difficult time.
Julia

[michelle c]

Oh, dear Becky, I am so very sorry. Thinking of and praying for you both. Sending you both love, strength and peace at this difficult time.

Love and hugs,

Michelle xox

[pbyers]

I am so sorry. You, Wayne and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Laurettas]

Becky, I am so sorry Wayne has taken this rapid change for the worse. I am in the same situation, and it is very difficult at times, isn't it? I so hope your family and friends will rally around you and provide you with the assistance you need to travel this path with Wayne. Take care and please know how much we all care.

[livingbyfaith]

Will circle prayers around you and your family for strength. I read that God uses these things for His glory, so many praying for my husband, easy to see His purpose.

[pmterra]

Hi Becky,
My heart is with you as you try to find the strength to get through the hardest part of the journey. I hope that your son Matt and DIL will be able to help as much as possible. I know you aren't close with your other son but hopefully he will realize how important family support means and come to be with his Dad (and Mom). Can't add more to the advice already posted. Let hospice do their job and take care of Wayne's needs so you can focus on helping him transition and get ready to go Home. God is with you always, lean on Him. I know He will give you the peace and courage to do what you have to. Never stop telling Wayne you love him and hold him - I'm sure he is just as lonely and scared as you are. Love and prayers for you always. Always here for you, Becky!
Love, Paula

[karin]

Omg I am so sorry!! I am thinking of him and sending positive thoughts!!:(

[Granny]

I am so sorry.
Will keep your family in prayer.
Granny

[jacekica]

I am so sorry to hear that, try to be strong, prayer and your church family will be great help. Everyone else told you what they think and gave you some good advices. I can only say I will be praying for both of you.

[deb1223]

So sorry to hear about Wayne. Prayers have been sent for both of you.

Debbie

[cecioboe]

I'm so sorry. Holding you both in my prayers for comfort and strength and a peaceful path.

[CRguy]

Sending prayers to you and your family for a peaceful and pain free Journey.

Respectfully
CRguy

[jens22]

My thoughts and prayers for strength and patience are coming you way from NY. Wayne's body probably doesn't need food right now. Only give him what he can tolerate. Don't get crazy about the "Thick It". You can try making the liquids a little thicker but his body make not need them. Keep his mouth nice and moist. As your church for help. Many retired and active nurses love to help but just wait to be asked. You can't do this alone. It's too much to ask of yourself.