Gaelen is no longer suffering

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Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby weisssoccermom » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:16 pm

I want to let everyone know that Pat Steer's (aka Gaelen) battle with stage IV rectal cancer ended today, Tuesday, July 17, 2012 at around 5:50pm Eastern time.
No more pain, no more suffering. Rest in peace, Pat.

Jaynee
Dx 6/22/2006 IIA rectal cancer
6 wks rad/Xeloda -finished 9/06
1st attempt transanal excision 11/06
11/17/06 XELOX 1 cycle
5 months Xeloda only Dec '06 - April '07
10+ blood clots, 1 DVT 1/07
transanal excision 4/20/07 path-NO CANCER CELLS!
NED now and forever!
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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby jjlist » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:17 pm

Goodbye Pat
RIP
age 56
11/16/09 DIAG low rectal tumor ST II T3N0M0
12/21/09 chemopump radiation
3/18/10 suregry colo-anal anastomosis, no nodes,.
4/29/10 Abcess infection
6/3/10 started 12 folfox sessions completed 10.
1/11/11 ileostomy takedown

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby BrownBagger » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:27 pm

I always assumed she would outlive me, regardless. Thanks, Jaynee, for keeping us informed.

The next patient who sees Dr. K should tell her and her staff. They all knew Pat (even though they're not supposed to admit it), and I know they'll want to know of her passing.
Eric, 58
Dx: 3/09, Stage 4 RC
Recurrences: (ongoing, lung, bronchial cavity, ribs)
Major Ops: 6/ RFA: 3 /bronchoscopies: 8
Pelvic radiation: 5 wks. Bronchial radiation—brachytheray: 3 treatments
Chemo Rounds (career):136
Current Chemo Cocktail: Xeloda & Erbitux & Irinotecan biweekly
Current Cocktail; On the Wagon (mostly)
Bicycle miles post-dx 10,477
Motto: Live your life like it's going to be a long one, because it just might, and then you'll be glad you did.

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JanC09
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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby JanC09 » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:30 pm

Pat is at peace now... Deepest thoughts to her family.
JanC09-Age59-Feb'08 Stage IIIc
Folfox,12 tx.
recurrance March'10
Folfiri, 10 tx
Radiation on pelvis, 28 tx
SBRT July '11
Folfiri March'12-June'12
Avastin only July'12-Feb.'13
Xeloda+Avastin- Feb'13-Oct'14
Irinotecan/Avastin- March'15 -4tx then scan

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby paula » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:31 pm

Rest in Peace, precious Pat, my friend.
3/08 Stage IIIa, colon resection, 12 rounds folfox
5/10 recurrence; right lobe liver metastasis
Hepatic resection 6/10; HAI pump and 6 months folfox/FUDR
Currently NED

The world is unfathomably beautiful today

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby SMR » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:38 pm

Though I only knew her through reading her words... All I can say is what a loss. I'm glad she is at peace, and I hope her family is able to find peace as well.
DH DX 10/11 st IV unkown prmry
FFOX 12/11
HIPEC 3/12
FFOX 5/12
7/12 FFIRI
12/12 xeloda
1/13 resection
2/13 FFIRI
4/13 5FU/Avastin
9/13 recurrence, failed surgery
Abdominal fistula
11/13 gemzar, heart attack
12/13 Carbo
2/14 Radiation
3/28/2014 passed

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby sailbd » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:41 pm

Sorry to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with her and her family. Her advocacy will be forever lasting and truly missed.

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby barbara jayne » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:48 pm

RIP Dear Gaelen.
DX. Colon Cancer (Cecum) stage 3
Right hemicolectomy Jan '08
2/22 L.nodes positive
Oxi and Xeloda
Xeloda discontinued
due to DPD enzyme deficiency
Lynch Syndrome
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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby pearlgirl » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:51 pm

She is gone, but her legacy of knowledge and advice live on. Bon Voyage, Pat.
Husband DX CC (T2N0M0) 9/06
LAR 9/06
Recurrence, now CRC 1/08
chemo/rad, 6 weeks, ended 5/2/08
2nd LAR/ temp ileo 6/19/08,
8/4/08> 6 months chemo
ileo reversal 4/09, in remission

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby Ashlee H. » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:53 pm

Pat was so knowledgeable and will be greatly missed on this board and in this World. RIP sweet Pat.
-Ashlee
Stage IV w/liver met dx 7-1-09
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2/14 - standard chemo has stopped working
3/14 - Stivarga
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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby mjkelley » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:56 pm

So sad. She will be deeply missed and foundly remembered. she was unique and irreplaceable
DX 1/30/10 @ 49
stage iv with In-numerable mets to Liver
Treatment plan: Chemo for life
40 rounds folfox Feb 2010 to October 2011
Dropped oxi October 2011
REDUCTION OR NO NEW GROWTH
July 2013 Growth
Back on oxi July 2013
More Growth
Folfori October 2013

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby ams5796 » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:57 pm

Rest in peace, Pat. My strong thoughts are with your family.


Ann
Stage 3C (or 4?) Rectal Cancer 01/07
2/10 lung mets
3/11 VATS
6/11 VATS
7/13 lung met
2/14 SBRT
NED 8/14
5/17 scan and MRI found treated spine met

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby Bussman » Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:59 pm

Condolences and "strongest thoughts" to Pat's family and friends. With the recent passing of Stephen Covey, I was reminded of Pat by his advice to imagine yourself at your funeral:

"Imagine your funeral: There are 4 speakers there.
One from your:
family
friends
community
and
work

What would you like them to say about you? What kind of legacy would you like to leave the world?"

Although I didn't know Pat except through this forum, she apparently hit home runs on all fronts and there will be much to talk about at her funeral or memorial.

Thanks Pat, you left the world a better place.

Bussman
1/21/11 dx CC @ 53
2/09/11 rt colon resect
0/18 LN; 4 tumor dep.
stage IIIB T4a N1c M0
3/11- 8/11 - 12 FOLFOX tx
6/11, 12/11 PET/CT scans- clean
1/12 follow-up scope - clean
6/12, 12/12,6/13 PET/CT scans- clean
NED

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby Brocken » Tue Jul 17, 2012 6:02 pm

*Tears* Rest In Peace Pat:(
Brocken
age 47 mom to 4
Diagnosed CC via colonoscopy 2-12-12
colon resection 2-22-12
determined stage 2 -t3 (0 nodes)
Port 4/27/12
Begin chemo 5/3/12 --5FU + leucovorin

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Re: Gaelen is no longer suffering

Postby meeko » Tue Jul 17, 2012 6:04 pm

Had so much respect for her...her knowledge and her no nonsense way of saying it. I will miss her posts :cry:
Condolences to her family
rectal cancer 9/08
LAR 10/1/08
2nd surgery for peritonitis and abcess 10/08/08 w/ temp ileo
stage 2A (t3) N0/16 M0
total of 8 rounds of 5fu/Leucovoran-- 5/09
Reversal and Hysterectomy 10/09/09
Married, 2 daughters
So far ..so Good!


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