Lots to consider here to be sure. I agree to the concerns about agism, wanting it both ways and that there is a huge gap between where we are as a society and where we should be.
Here are the concerns I'm left with at the moment:
1.) As a society we are apathetic. We don't want to be inconvenienced with taking actual responsibility for the freedom and benefits we have in the US. Is this unique to the US? I highly doubt it. Whatever concerns I see here, however important they might be, I don't see any long term solution to as we won't focus on any one issue long enough to actually solve it. . . we'll follow the butterflies to the next issue of the day as we, due to human nature, fatigue from whatever the current battle is.
2.)If we are talking $$$, I have for some reason been really pissed lately about how money is used and abused. Money is effectively printed which amounts to an attack on anyone who is on fixed income(think at least inflation, let alone fast rising medical costs), whether the money is from Govt or their own savings. Looking at the costs of various hospital and medical bills just gets my hackles up too as I just don't see how some of these items can possibly actually cost what is billed... oh yeah, and then look at the "negotiated" costs my insurance claims. . . and then look at what the uninsured would pay, which seems much more defensible. But how to effectively complain about this system since it is complicated and must work in some way? Then let's look at why things are "legitimately" expensive. . . sometimes because of insurance(humans do make mistakes). But how much is due to our society's sue-happy nature and people's lack of basic understanding or comfort with issues of health, death and dying? How much of that money is enriching only the lawyers on both sides, not advancing or rewarding anyone for medical practices or advances?
3.) What can _I_ do to set the example here? There's little I'm knowledgeable in this area (remember the apathy above?) so I'm not likey going to be much help in solving the underlying problems. Personally, I know my treatments are expensive. I also know my prognosis without it is very short. With treatment there is good reason to believe I'll get some more years. . . well, more accurately, this expensive treatment is one step to a multi-year survival. What is the metric? What is the equation to take my preferences into account, my available resources, and my medical options to help give me one way to look at whether or not it's perhaps time to consider switching to comfort mode rather than doing that last treatment? Who knows if I'll have to decide on a 10 month, give or take, treatment that only adds months vs. perhaps choice of treatments run out. . . at which point the equation maybe doesn't matter?
Hmmm.... I'm en engineer at heart, so I do wonder what the cold hard math might look like. Not saying it should be this simple, but it seems it would be a valid data point. ( or data points since certainly there are multiple possible equations)
4.) Luckily even though I have been sickly lately, I am very much on the mend. I really do feel content with life again. Back to where I was before my flight back from Colorodo when I was on vacation.
This is something I really do wish for everyone. Ill or not, I think we all owe it to ourselves and loved ones to _be_ happy, to _be_ content, so _share_ ourselves. Maybe our contentment with life will rub off after all. I know in my case, this is what my family wants for me and it's what I want for them, so that's what I'm trying to find ways to focus on. I can't fix the world's ills, but I can personally be OK with the world despite it's deficiencies.
What's that got to do with this thread? Nothing or everything I say.