When it's time, you know...

[MonaL]

With Grace.

Those are the words I think of when I think of the path that you have traveled and continue to travel.

I wish you continued peace, acceptance, and strength, and hope that you surprise us all, including yourself, even in this last phase of the journey.

[jens22]

You have touched me in ways that you will never know. Getting Colon Cancer Sucks...and there is no it and or butts about it. You took your disease and let it make you an advocate, teacher, supporter and friend. Like brith we have no control over death, but some are lucky in that they can navigate their destiny. As you enter the Hospice part of your care I pray for comfort and the ease of knowing that chemo is over. I pray that angels like you wil lbe taking care of your every need. Thank you for everything Pat.

[chrissyrice]

Blessings for sharing this part of the journey. Thank you, Pat.

[Surroundedbylove]

Gaelen,

I was reflecting on this thread this morning. As you know, so often we have threads like this after someone passes away. I love that you have shared your journey in such a way that YOU get to read all of the wonderful ways that you have impacted others. I hope that you realize how much of an impact you have had on the lives of others; the advocacy for screening, prevention, and research regarding this disease; and the example you have set with how to truly live with this disease.

Strongest thoughts to you in this next phase.

SBL

[triciah]

Gaelen,
You are such an inspiration for so many. You have accomplished so much during this journey. May you have peace as you continue your journey.

Tricia

[disco nap]

I get you. Earlier this year, my mom asked me a question: If I were to die in the near future, would I be OK with that, and I immediately said yes because I had done more in my 38 years than most people do if they live to the ripe old age of 90.

I know you have been through a lot, done a lot and lived a lot, and I am guessing you feel as I do. Life isn't about quantity.

I hope that when my time does come that I remember your post here, and can take a page from your book and handle it with graceful calm and serenity, as you have.

Thank you.

[lorrainem]

Wishing you continued peace G.

[sailbd]

Hi Gaelen:
My wife and I have been lurkers for almost 2 years now. She was diagnosed at 42 with stage 4 cc. We found this blog and immediately obtained the value of you knowledge and experience. You are an incredible and sophisticated advocate against this disease, and your efforts are and will continue to be greatly appreciated. Our hearts and thoughts go out to you.

Bob

[JanC09]

With grace and dignity you are moving into the next phase of your journey. Thank you so much for all the knowlege you have shared. I wish you peace and comfort in your coming days.
Jan

[live2jett]

Hi Friend,
After reading all the responses...I had to smile...I'm smiling because you have many peeps who truly care, respect and love you. I hope you feel that LOVE coming your way.

You have always had a place in this forum as a very informative person...there have been people that have not always agreed with you..and I know there had been times when you were bombarded with people not being too happy...but I have always thought that "Hey this chick always sticks to her beliefs"..I admire that.

I remember the first time I came on the board...the two names that stuck out was yours and Justsing...I feel like you guys were the old timers and wow.. you gals knew your stuff.
I want to thank you for all that you have shared...to know that one day a newbie will come to this forum to find answers and information....and they will see your post...your words are etched her forever...

I'm a simple girl with not a lot of medical information to share and educate..I could be known as a emotional supporter with a whole lot of LOVE to share...
This is why Colon Club is so special...we are all different...different values...different personalities....we are one big family... we all appreciate you friend!!

May your next chapter be the one that you desire...you have given your all on this cancer journey...with much respect and a whole lot of MUSHY LOVE:)

Your are a valued person who will be missed but never forgotten....Deb

[deb1223]

May you continue to have peace and comfort has you go into your next journey. I will truely miss your wisdom on this site.

Debbie

[Guinevere]

Gaelen,
Thank you for letting us know where you are in your journey now. I just want to let you know that you have made a huge and positive difference in the lives of so many people, myself included. Thank you, too, for your advocacy and sharing the information you have with us here on the forum. It's been invaluable and has also served to kick me in my Barbie butt to get the rest of my affairs in order.
I did have to laugh a little at the bickering family and hope they realize that this time isn't about them but, even if they don't, it's good to know they love you.
I hope this part of the journey is as pain free as possible and that someone will keep us posted when it's too difficult for you to do it yourself.
Prayers for peace and comfort ~
Gwen

[Canadianmom]

Thank you Pat. Thank you for letting us know where you are in your journey. Thank you for always being the voice of reason on this board. Thank you for the countless hours of research and translation into layman's terms. Thank you for your objectiveness. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, education and experience. Thank you for always being true to yourself and others. Thank you for your kindness. Thank you for being an advocate and for teaching us how to advocate too. There are so many more things I'd like to thank you for....
I have often wondered why you kept coming here, what you were getting out of visiting this board? After all, you know ALL the information and you do not care for platitudes. I believe it has been for the intrinsic value of knowing you were disseminating knowledge and power. And for that I THANK YOU my friend.
I wish you comfort and peace and hope you know how much we value and care for you.
With respect, admiration and love,
Wafa

[Peteswife]

Thanks Gaelen! All the best on this part of your journey. I have read your post to my children (20 and 24), to let them understand how the patient feels as Peter is basically at the same place as you are. After 8,5 years! You were in this together! But he can't put it in words like you do, and I read your post to them, to understand how he also feels!

Peace for you in this time, and painfree! That is what I want most for you and others in your situation.
Lots and lots and all our love!
Ilse and Peter (and Kids)

[Seriously, WTF?]

Just a bunch of hugs and kisses being sent your way!! xoxoxoxoxo. Always thinking of you!!