I got a reply, and a fairly awkward one unfortunately... Not very good at delivering bad news, obviously (in the wrong job maybe?
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It looks like Vectibix is the last option he is willing to explore, even w/out the mutation. So if we knew that she was mutant, he wouldn't offer anything else.
No mention of clinical trials with it either - maybe mum is too far gone to qualify for a trial? She is still in good health though, for now.
I want us to get a 2nd opinion, even if it feels very desperate at this stage - I don't believe in a miracle anymore of course, but if we can find a way of giving her more time... As 1st line this onc didn't give mum Avastin with the Folfiri, whilst this second onc said he would have done. So they don't always agree. Maybe this other doc would want to try something else again, something more aggressive?
I wonder how long she's got left - will she even be with us for Christmas? I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. And goodness me does it hurt.