Hello Colon Club!
I am Deborah and my husband is Carl. He is 35 years old diagnosed in August 2005 with a large, locally advanced recto-sigmoid well-differentiated adenocarcinoma after having emergency surgery to relieve bowel obstruction with temporary colostomy/mucus fistula created. CT's clear otherwise at that time. He then had 6 weeks neoadjuvant chemo (xeloda) / radiation. LAR on 12/6 with partial cystectomy (no bladder invasion--stuck to bladder) and colostomy takedown for reanastomosis and temporary ileostomy created. Clear margins with tumor, 23/23 nodes negative. So, at that time, good news with plan for 6 month FOLFOX6 after recovery.
In mid-January 06, before starting any adjuvant chemo, CT showed 3 spots, 2 probable hemangiomas, but 3rd suspicious of mets. MRI proved this to be true (12mm) with PET confirming it as well. So, Stage IV. Evaluated by liver surgeon---good news that it is operable with curative intent. It was decided to do 4 cycles of FOLFOX 6, one month off (has port). Do MRI, then hepatic resection of mets. One month healing time then resume FOLFOX 6 for 8 more cycles;also probably add Avastin.
So, as of today, Carl has tolerated 2 cycles ok with 3rd on 3/28...waves of nausea,fatigue,body aches for about 7 days. Starting to get some peripheral neuropathy, as well as, mouth sores after this cycle. Taste is altered. Worry that he does not take in enough fluids during the 7 days after oxilaplatin dose---he only likes ice cold drinks. Overall, he did better with the second cycle....knew what to expect. He does need alot of encouragement. Thankfully, he works from home (his job is extremely supportive). I only work away from home a few days a month, otherwise I am at home and homeschool our 15yo son (always has been homeschooled).
Our son, Michael (only child), has his own healthcare needs. Born with underdeveloped kidneys--due to post-uretheral valves, kidney transplant 10/98---then diagnosed 11/05 with chronic allograft nephropathy--which is essentially"chronic rejection". His care has escalated during the time since his Dad had been diagnosed. More ped-nephrology visits, more frequent bloodwork, major medication changes with new side effects----now he starts araNESP injections because Hct dropping due to new med mostly, but also can be from deterioration of kidney function.
Needless to say, I feel exhausted and overwhelmed at times. BUT, this is where I was meant to be. My journey before I met Carl, my experiences, our son's birth, and our journey in life since then has prepared me for my role as caregiver to both of these guys. I love them dearly and will do anything to nurture their life each day. They are both amazing people. They are an awesome support for each other. Their courage gives me strength. They both are my heroes!
My mother is a 10 year survivor of colon cancer (Stage II at 60yo) and my paternal Grandfather died from colon cancer when I was around 13yo; I am 45yo and my doctor still says age 50 for colonoscopy for me. I am to the point of pushing for one this year.
Everyone's stories and posts are inspiring and most helpful. I have perused several message/discussion boards off and on for about 8 months now; mostly since the mets was found.
The colon club is the first group that I have joined, EVER. I am thankful to Molly for having created it.
I hope that each of you are doing well!
Deborah