Over the last few months Lilli has really started to notice alot more of whats going on with me and doctors. Since I was dxd before she was born, she never knew anything differant. Just that this is the way Mommy is. I have a chronic cough from the lung tumor, I cough all day long, all night long since March. Quite often the coughing can be so violent it causes me to throw up. Every time I cough she asks me if I am ok, "Mommy can you breathe?" or "Mommy get your medicine". She looks at me so worried. Reading books to her is hard right now because I get out of breath and start wheezing and coughing. My daughter now walks around pretending to cough, a couple of times she has coughed hard enough to make herself throw up, when she had nothing in her mouth and her lungs were clear. She was doing the usual fake, dry coughing, then she gagged and threw up. That broke my heart, I cried for about 2 days. I try to make it into another room before throwing up but that isn't always possible.
Then the whole doctor appt situation. When I come home with any kind of bandaid or bruise she knows I was at the doctor and has to kiss it and hug it and ask me if it hurts. I keep trying to make sure she thinks the doctors help me feel better, I don't want her to be scared of doctors. Her new thing when I take her to daycare and she knows I have a doc appt is " no doctors today mommy, lets stay together"
Last week when I threw my back out my hubby would have to half carry me from room to room, and there would be lilli from behind pushing my butt gently saying "careful Mommy, careful". She is just the sweetest, most caring 2yr old I have even known.
I hate to see how this affects her and I cry about it at somepoint nearly everyday because she is so sweet about it. I pray that it will all be for a good reason down the road, that it will lead her to a career as a nurse, doctor or something else in healthcare. I dream of her finding the cure to Cancer but I don't want to wait that long
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