Postby babs249 » Wed Apr 27, 2011 1:17 pm
I agree with those who have said that even if the genetic testing were done, and the results were found to be negative, that extreme vigilance as far as testing for you and your children would still be necessary. My father had colon cancer, diagnosed at age 81, I was diagnosed at age 50, an uncle just died recently from colon cancer at age 88, and we think that at least two uncles who died many years ago died from colon cancer. I have not had genetic testing, and am not planning on doing so. There are many reasons for this. Even if my tests were to be negative, my children would still need to have more frequent and earlier colonoscopies than the general population. Also, I think it could affect the ability to get health and/or life insurance in the future. As much as we may be told this will not happen, I frankly don't believe it. In fact, I believe that in the future information like that could affect one's ability to get a job. I know, it sounds paranoid, but there you have it. Also, many people, myself included, look at our DNA as being very personal, and don't want that information out there available for others to see.
I would like to add here that breast cancer also runs in my family, on my mother's side of the family. One of my sisters died from it, and the other one had it, but it was caught very early, and twelve years later she is still doing fine (thankfully). She opted to have genetic testing done, and the results were negative, but she believes, as do I, that there are genetic markers for some breast cancers that are just not known yet. A radiologist recommended I have genetic counseling for breast cancer (not genetic testing) because of the family history. I did, and it was calculated that my risks of developing breast cancer are pretty much average. So while the genetic counseling eased my mind a bit, I was still reminded to have annual testing. My point here is that the ball is still in my court, so to speak. I still have to take full responsibility and continue to have mammograms, colonoscopies, etc. I am not implying here that you are trying to avoid testing, obviously you are not since you've already had colonoscopies, just that in the end, we really don't know how our own personal genes will behave. Will we be spared cancer, other illnesses? Who knows?
Sylvie, I know how hard it is see your parent go through a miserable disease such as cancer, especially when you know it will probably take their life in the end. I sympathize with you and what you are going through. No matter what your relationship with a loved one has been, it's awful and painful to watch them suffer.
Stage II CRC - 2001
Resection May 2001