Thought I might post an update to this...thanks for all your supportive messages!
I saw a new oncologist yesterday, 8 hour round trip later, I have some good news and some hope!
I am on a chemo break for two weeks, after my last scan I went a bit nutty...and mentally hit a wall. I couldn't go through with my 9th cycle...the thought of chemo for life just kept going over and over in my head. But I think my body needed a break too, and I'm enjoying it. Rode my bike in the early autumn sunshine and felt a lovely breeze on my face. Keeping moving makes me feel like I'm not sick.
My new onc says he is going to get me to do another 12 cycles of FOLFIRI/Avastin after my next 4 cycles are done. He said I can have little breaks now and then if I like, his goal and my goal is to get me to surgery. He also talked about SIR spheres, HIPEC wash and clinical trials. He told me not to give up or to lose hope.
Also one of his receptionists thought I was a medical rep when I walked in! Must be my purty new wig. I wondered why they let me use the staff bathroom when I first walked in.
I was holding my black medical folder and I guess she thought I was selling something...
After my appointment she said 'oh my gosh I had no idea you were a patient, I thought you were a rep! you look so well!'
Thanks love!! Kept me smiling the rest of the day.