Oh, Elissa, you're so right about it being unfair, but don't beat yourself up about the vacation. No one - not even our oncs, radiologists, surgeons, etc. - quite know the "right" or "wrong" thing to do with cancer treatment. So much of it is up to things that no one can know.
elissa wrote:So, tomorrow we go back in and meet with the onc and make a new plan and get him back on chemo.
Concentrate on the fight, girl! I'll be sending you tons of prayers, light, and love.