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Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2019 11:58 am
by radnyc
Bumping up

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:21 pm
by LPL
My question to radnyc from June 14 is still unanswered...
Sun June 16, 2019
radnyc wrote:
Bumping up

Fri Jun 14, 2019
LPL wrote:
radnyc, do you want caregivers and loved ones to post in this thread and not participate elsewhere in ColonClub?

Fri Jun 14, 2019
radnyc wrote:
Bumping up

Thu Jun 13, 2019
Colon Club Moderators Committee wrote:
.. This post will serve to bump this to the first page.

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2019 3:51 pm
by stu
Ok Radnyc, I think we got it . Maybe the forum should state it’s a patient only forum .
Stu

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2019 4:18 pm
by CRguy
ccmc wrote:To move a topic back onto the first page all you need to do is make a post into that topic, otherwise known as "bumping" a topic.

This post will serve to bump this to the first page. If members wish to keep it active, just keep posting into it.
It was not lost or locked, it was just inactive.

I think it also deserves to be noted that just saying "bumping up" in the text is not what was intended from the ccmc
ADDING relevant content, in context, IS how topics should be bumped if they are inactive, like this one was.
From my own experience here ( since 2008 ) "empty" bumps tend to get deleted, which just drops the topic back to it's last posting date.
IF someone wants to "bump" a topic, then please contribute to it meaningfully.

This forum is open for registered members to post into any open topic.
No individual member decides which topic is appropriate for another member.

THIS topic was started by a wife of a Stage IV husband.
Over the years MANY members from many different situations have contributed and that is the way it should stay.

CRguy

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2019 4:24 pm
by peanut_8
Don't want to put words into Radnyc's mouth, butt maybe he meant that sometimes caretakers need additional encouragement and it may be found from folks in a similar situation, I would bee very surprised if he wanted to discourage caretakers from the forum as a whole. It's a pretty small group here and almost everyone has something valuable to contribute

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2019 5:21 pm
by LPL
stu wrote:Ok Radnyc, I think we got it . Maybe the forum should state it’s a patient only forum .
Stu

Yes Stu, that is also how I interpret this.
Sadly..

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2019 11:42 am
by radnyc
"Fri Jun 14, 2019
LPL wrote:
radnyc, do you want caregivers and loved ones to post in this thread and not participate elsewhere in ColonClub?"

I have never insinuated that caregivers not post on this thread or anywhere else on the forum. My interest in bringing back to the top the Wives thread which apparently had fallen into the abyss, was to make sure that new posters know that there's such a place for them to reach out to people with similar concerns. Same goes for the Prayers thread.

Post on!

Peace.

Al

Re: Wives of husbands with Stage IV Colon Freaking Cancer

Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2019 3:59 pm
by LPL
radnyc wrote:"Fri Jun 14, 2019
LPL wrote:
radnyc, do you want caregivers and loved ones to post in this thread and not participate elsewhere in ColonClub?"

I have never insinuated that caregivers not post on this thread or anywhere else on the forum. My interest in bringing back to the top the Wives thread which apparently had fallen into the abyss, was to make sure that new posters know that there's such a place for them to reach out to people with similar concerns. Same goes for the Prayers thread.

Post on!

Peace.

Al

Well,
It sounds as I must have misunderstood everything - your words/actions (but I was obviously not the only one.)

What made me think that you in fact had some motive was that sadly I still remember your words (that you deleted) in your thread ‘Never mind’
viewtopic.php?f=1&t=61982&start=15#p489508

Thank you for replying.