Hello again,
Well I visited a 2nd opinion Oncologist today. This guy told me that from the surgical pathology report, it is unclear where the tumor was located. Whether it would be classified as a rectal or colon cancer. And that he has to call my surgeon, who is conviently on vacation, to verify this.
The thing is that if it is rectal, then I will have to go thru radiation as well. This scares me. I have heard that the side effects of radiation can be permanent. But I want to ask you if you know, or have personally gone thru radiation treatments, what the story is. Did you have any temporary or permanent damage to surrounding organs, IE bladder, or sexual disfunction? and any other problems? Incontinence? (I really dont know what can happen from radiation)
All previous doctors, surgeons, etc classified my tumor as colon, not rectal. It was 15 cm inside, they would not do an ultrasound on it because it was so far up, and also they could not get a good look at it with a rigid proctoscope. Because of this, the Onc says this is encouraging and that radiation is probably not needed. So this rant/scare might be all for nothing and I will know in a few days what way this will go.
But also, this Onc says he will not give me any monoclonal antibodies (like Avastin) unless it is in a clinical trial, because they have yet to be proven to be worthwhile for Stage III patients, and in fact could cause more harm than they are worth. This I see as a sign that he would not try something new or be an innovator, take a chance to cure me, etc... Id much rather take a drug that targets cancer cells, than put radiation on all organs in my pelvis.. thoughts?
But in the meantime I have a problem with the communication skills of my Drs so far because first I was told that I need to start chemo in 6 weeks, but next was told "Oh no.. you should start any time between 3 and 6 weeks.. " Next, these miscommunications happen, I figured these guys would be thorough..
In any case the Onc that I like the most, I met with 2 weeks ago. He was a nice person to me, was personable, and had an upbeat attitude about me being cured. He however was not up on the latest regarding diet, and some supplements that we have discussed here, like Avamir, ACHH, etc.
what do you think, and advise?
thanks much
Eric