***disclaimer. I don't necessarily want to egg any of this on. so i'll post my feelings on tc14420's mssg. and then post a seperate response on a more positive note on my experiences. b/c i'd rather this thread focus more on the topic at hand which is the awesomeness that was the Colondar 2008 shoot!***
you certainly are entitled to your opinion. and thank you for
clarifying that it is in fact YOUR OPINION.
and you're right, you'd be hard pressed to find anyone on this site who
would agree with you. and you know why?
Because we come here seeking things just like this. stories for us to
relate to. b/c we are directly affected by this every day of our lives.
either b/c we suffer the affects personally, or a very close loved one
does.
no offense, b/c obviously i don't know you from jack and so if i speak
out of line, pardon me. BUT that being said, do you have any form of
cancer? life-threatening illness? debilitating or profoundly life
changing handicap or condition?
If not, then if i were you, i would politely and respecfully NOT insult
those of us here who CHOSE...i emphasize, CHOSE to take part in this.
B/c by insinuating things like " sponsors get you to this in a wonderful
setting and convince you that you can save the world, put you together
with other cancer victoms and make you feel special" is more degrading
of you to state like that then it actually is.
first off, no sponsor swept us off to a wonderful location. it was
someone's home allowing us to take up camp. it was neighbors donating
their space for a good cause. it was hardwork by everyone involved at
the sacrifice of many aspects of their personal and professional lives.
and put us together with other victims?!?! Excuse me, i never a day in
my life would refer to me, nor any one there as a victim of anything
save for maybe bad taste in humor on occasion (
)
I am NOT a victim of cancer. Cancer did not rape me, or steal my car.
As far as I can tell I'm not letting cancer stop me from doing
anything.
I can't speak for your friend. But i CAN speak for everyone at this
years shoot. And i am willing to put large quantities of money on the fact
that not one of us felt exploited, or put on parade, or victimized.
There was no pulling the wool over anyones eyes (or legs, arms, belly,
breasts or butts for that matter)
Please only speak to things that you know or have personally
experienced. And if you're truly appalled by what the colondar is
trying to achieve maybe instead of criticizing you can suggest better,
more effective or positive options? Or do something yourself.
So easy to judge. So much harder to dedicate yourself to attempting to
make a difference as people like Molly and Hannah are doing every day. They don't need to even speak to that, their actions say everything.
(oh, and i personally have already experienced several young people
getting tested, or just even beginning to talk with a doctor about
symptoms they were too embarrassed about after talking with me and seeing what I've been through. not to say you're assumption that no young person would look at our pictures and decide to get tested ISN'T a possibility, i don't think you can state either argument with total conviction. What I do know is that if someone is already experiencing questionable symptoms, then yes, our pictures and stories will probably very much encourage them to finally get tested.)
whew...sorry guys...just needed to get that out. And yes, i can go on and on and on. but i think i've said enough.