Postby Loopy369 » Mon Apr 23, 2007 5:50 am
Hi, sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis. I had 25 chemoradio sessions over 5 weeks (with the continuous 5FU starting two weeks prior). My main symptoms for the first three weeks were just incredible tiredness. I personally didn't want to be driven and drove myself all but once a week (to let my mum feel she was helping mostly) but I would say the offer at least of a chauffeur and company in the waiting room would be a first step - you won't be allowed in the treatment room with her, no-one is allowed in the room but the patient for radio.
I'm afraid I wasn't so lucky with side effects and got bleeding cystitis quite early on - no infection, just shrinking tubes. Your mum needs to drink plenty of water before she has each treatment to protect her bladder from inflammation (I forgot once and that did me in). I started drinking barley water straight away and the pain got better within a day.
In the last two weeks my haemorrhoids became very inflamed and painful. My tumour is camping out in my rectum so the beams were directed quite low which your mum's may not be. Basically at the first twinge of pain ASK FOR HELP. Mine got worse over Easter so I was without relief for four days and it was a very long four days. However the meds they gave me - suppositories with steroids to reduce inflammation and local anaesthetic pain killers worked, again within 24 hours. The colifoam didn't do a thing.
Any hair in the radiated area will most likely fall out, mine has!
I used aqueous cream daily before and after treatment to keep the skin from drying out - apart from some sore broken skin where the sun doesn't shine (hydrogel prescribed, worked a treat) my skin has remained fine.
I finished treatment on 11th April, now waiting for surgery date and follow up chemo and feel really rather good!!
I can tell my mum things - she's worked in a medical centre for 28 years, but your mum may not find it easy to talk to you. If you can print this off and show it to her and please tell her to ask for meds at the first sign of pain and she should never suffer. They don't give out medals to those who put up with pain and it doesn't do your morale any good either!
I'd suggest practical help with housework, cooking, ironing etc, gardening while she's having treatment would be the best help as I didn't have the energy to even think about these things, let alone do them. Just say "I'm going to do X today" instead of asking what she'd like to be done - it was too much for me to choose which of the many things I'd like done first and I can never ASK for help.
Of course hopefully your mum will be lucky like LA8 and sail through (lucky git - nice to see you back from your travels).
Best of luck and good wishes.
Lisa
Lisa
36, single mum of two (14 and 12) diagnosed Jan 07
Stage 3b (Rectal at 15cm)
7 weeks 5FU 24/7 Feb/Mar 07 with 5 weeks radiation.
TME, creation of J pouch and loop ileostomy 6th June 07
Another PICC line and 6 months chemo start 16th July 07