Postby sean » Tue Apr 10, 2007 10:15 am
One of the worst parts of having cancer no matter what kind and what stage is that when the primary (and maybe secondary) tumors are completely removed there is no way to tell if the cancer has spread until the miniscule tumors or even single cells grow large enough to detect. If you are stage 4 and there are detectable metastases you can't know if there are other tumors too small to detect elsewhere. Generally if you make it 5-7 years without any new tumors being detected some oncologists will consider you "cured". As an example, I have stage IIA colon cancer. The primary tumor was pretty advanced, but I had no involved lymph nodes and no vascular invasion. I've had a doctor tell me that I my resection "cured me" and don't worry since I will live a long life. I am sure he was trying to be reassuring, but I think it is dangerous advice since statistically about 1 in 4 Stage IIA patients actually have metastases that are just too small to see. At some time in the future approximately 1 in 4 stage IIA patients who takes a wait and see approach will have a "recurrence" which really means that the metastases that were always there have gotten big enough to detect. NED means cancer might be there and might not - all you know is that if it is there it is still too small to detect. It completely sucks that you can never know for sure. The longer you are NED, the better the odds that your are really completely cancer free. I don't think I'll feel "cured" until I'm NED for about 10 years or maybe more. Hopefully I'll be here in 10 years to let you know.
My opinion is that it is best to be fully informed about your particular cancer and be aggressive as is practical in monitoring and treatment. Don't let statistics scare you since any number that indicates the effect of actual treatment on the outcome is always at least 5 years behind modern medicine and your boyfriend is an individual not an average. In my opinion it is important to be aware of the statistics as a factor in making treatment decisions - especially in the case of adjuvant chemotherapy. All that said, it sounds like your boyfriends doctors are being very aggressive in treatment which is what I would want if I were in his shoes. NED is as good as it gets for now & its where everyone who has any stage of cc or any c wants to be. I hope your boyfriend stays NED for the rest of his natural life. My unsolicited advice to you is to understand that he may get freaked out or depressed from time to time - especially when waiting for test results. Unfortunately its one of the nasty benefits of being in the colon club. Good luck to both of you.
42 - dx Jan 3 2007 stage IIA colon
9 FOLFOX4, 3 5-FU completed Sep 24 2007
Blockage symptoms, Negative Colonoscopy, Positive PET Oct 2009
2nd Resection Oct 2009 - Suspected Local Recurrence was Negative