Hi -
I don't post here very often - (age 57 and I figure this board is mostly for younger folks) but I am a Stage IV colorectal survivor. And, your post really struck me.
The absolute worst thing I have ever done was to read my medical records. Not only is the "information" scary, but mostly medical records are fairly dehumanizing (at least when read by a patient), even if you have a great relationship with the doc who wrote them - reading about "the patient" suddenly makes it feel like YOU aren't even a factor anymore. At least that's how I felt. In addition, even though I have had a very positive attitude throughout this whole experience, reading an "official" record that talks about your adenocarcinoma somehow makes it seem more real and more scary.
As I told a doc at NIH when I was evaluated there, there is nothing worse than reading medical stuff written ABOUT you, but equally, it is impossible not to read!
Please try and be positive - sounds like you are doing well so far - just package up those records and put them in the back of a drawer and try not to go back and read them. (Mine are in an envelope with tape on it, so I have to make an extra effort to peruse them again!)
Take care,
Betsy
klryder02 wrote:I did a bad thing today.
I got a copy of my medical record yesterday, and read the whole thing today at work (seeing another oncologist next week).
Bad, bad stuff. I know that I am stage four, and I understand what that means, but I feel like I didn't know how bad things are.
I read the oncologists comments after he saw me for the first time, and it basically says that because of how much it has spread, it's not curable.
I have reacted to chemo very, very well, and I tried to keep tellling myself that, but it is hard.
I need some positive thoughts, comments.
Also, should I be worried that I have some type of gallstone, but no one has bothered to mention this to me??