Hey there Kim, I too had a lap assisted right hemi colectomy. It's not a walk in the park for sure, but it is much easier than a full abdominal incision recovery wise. 5 days is about right on the timeframe for the average patient. I was only in 3, but I'm told I was pretty rare. As for pain, it hurts, A LOT. If I had to do it all again, I would have asked for a PCA pump or an epidural to deal with the pain. They just gave me IV dilauded sparingly and it was not enough. So if you're in pain, demand more pain meds. Tell the nursing staff and their worrying about drugs causing constipation to go pee up a tree and get the pain under control
. Not everyone gets an NG tube, it depends on how conservative your surgeon/hospital is. They'll leave it in until they're confident you're having good bowel sounds, then give you clear liquids, then regular liquids, then soft foods, and then send you home provided you tolerate each step well. And yes, you will be able to walk after the surgery. Fun it will not be, but it's necessary
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As for involvement, lots of folks do just fine with lymph node involvement. Surgery is extremely effective, and coupled with adjuvant chemotherapy, more folks live reccurence free lives than dont even with lymph node involvement. What's important is that it isn't in your liver/lungs. You should be really excited about that
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If I may offer a couple other pieces of advice for the hosptial stay. Bring an ipod/cd player/laptop/etc with headphones in case you have a nutjob of a roommate
. And bring some gum and chew it a lot after surgery. It helps get peristalsis going, which gets bowel sounds going, which gets the ng tube out faster and gets you eating real food faster
Good luck and le us know how the surgery goes. You're gonna do just fine and we're here to support you.
11/13/09 5cm Stage IV 9/25 lymph nodes w/2cm peritoneal met at 29 YoA
12/15/09 LA right hemi-colectomy
6/16/10 Folfox
FINISHED8/10/10 Prophylactic HIPEC
10/9/10 got Married
Still NED and living life to the fullest
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