This may mean different things to different people, but have you done or said something you wouldn't have said if you didn't have cancer?
Example. I teach Geography to high school freshman. One student has been walking in lately reaking of smoke. I made the comment "You should lay off the ciggirates (sp)" and of course he acted like he didn't smoke.
For some reason, I proceded to tell him he should stop, because it would suck if he gets lung cancer when he is 60 or 70, and has to go through chemo. And then I added that chemo sucks, and he should stop smoking.
I didn't say it in those exact words..but you get the point. Later that day, I felt bad for what I said. I felt liked I kinda played the cancer card.
I know I am in a unique situation, because what I'm going through could very well teach the kids something, but I still felt kinda guilty later.
Anyway, I was wondering how other people played their cancer card??