Hannahw, maybe the reason I had appointments with specialty ostomy nurses right away (before surgery, and then in the hospital) had something to do with:
1) urban area (NYC)
2) I was at a major cancer center (MSKCC)
3) I was seeing a board-certified colorectal surgeon. There are a group of ostomy nurses associated with the CR surgeons, in the same offices, and they work together. Maybe other board-certified CR surgeons don't associate their practices with ostomy nurses, but mine do.
I'm frankly a little appalled at a urologist (or any gastro-oriented doc) who'd say something about ostomies like 'I put 'em in, I don't manage 'em - that's for the ostomy nurses.' While my CR surgeon relies heavily on his ostomy nurses, he knows enough about ostomies to be able to discuss management with a patient (and he knows when to call in the WOC/RN cavalry.
) The urologic surgeon is the same (and uses a similar group; he keeps office on 68th St rather than 53rd St, so his ostomy nurses work out of the hospital.) It was my CR surgeon that told me that having a double ostomy (colostomy + urostomy) was not double the effort, but more like quadruple the adaptive effort - and while he was recommending the double ostomy, it was the information from HIS nurses that talked me out of it. So yes, I do think the surgeon's attitude makes a difference, and I definitely think that a surgeon who puts in ostomies should be working close-in-hand with a group of wound-ostomy nurses who can fill in the gaps, answer the questions, be the ostomy resources the doctor may not have time to be.
But the doc who puts in the ostomy should also understand the ostomy - in the same way that the orthopedist who replaces a knee should understand how the new knee is going to work and what a patient needs to do to recover. Sure, a physical therapist is going to take over in that new knee recovery, but the surgeon needs to know what's going to be expected, and how to gauge progress. Same with ostomies - and a surgeon who understands them, how they work and how they affect his patients, is truly treating the whole patient and not just coming in to make a guest-appearance with a scalpel before bowing out to the next operating room!
In the beginning especially - for me, right after my diagnostic pre-op meeting - my surgeon has patients meet with the ostomy nurses. You see the doc for about a half hour. My meeting with the ostomy nurses lasted closer to
two hours - they marked me for surgery, explained ostomies from start to finish, gave me information and samples, and did a very thorough pre-op ostomy teaching. Then, since surgery was in the major cancer center (MSKCC), I saw ostomy nurses who are assigned to the CRC floor but who also circulate onto other gastrointestinal surgery floors. When I was released from the hospital, still in NYC, my visiting nurses were both wound-ostomy specialists. From these folks (some women, some men) I learned a great deal about managing my ostomy before my surgery and after.
What I didn't have in the beginning was local support - since my surgery was done in NYC, that's where my nurses were. In the beginning, I relied for information on my sister-in-law, who is only a couple hours away and is also a wound-ostomy nurse. Since I had reliable help accessible by phone and had gotten a lot of real-time instruction in the weeks immediately following my surgery, I didn't actively seek out ostomy professionals here at home.
Then, a couple years after the ostomy placement, when I had some questions that could have used an ostomy nurse's eye, it took awhile to hook up with ostomy nurses here in (smaller) Syracuse. Finally found a group through another patient, but it wasn't easy to hunt them out. The visiting nurse I had in central NY had little/no experience with ostomies. By contrast, in the hospital in NYC, the only two people I encountered in three hospital stays who didn't know how to help me with my ostomy (or were a bit clumsy at it) were an otherwise-awesome colorectal surgical fellow (she wanted to check my stoma after surgery and reattached the ostomy bag so that the drainage output was pointing off to the left instead of straight down) and a brand new student-nurse...who was learning about ostomies assigned to a more experienced RN, and the pair had me as a patient. By the end of my first 10-day stay, the student nurse was already pretty good.
I guess what I'm saying is that this might be one of the reasons (that we never cite) to look for a board-certified colorectal surgeon and/or to consider surgery in a major cancer center when your colorectal surgery isn't emergent - it's the law of big numbers. These folks deal with ostomies all the time, and the experience shows in the patient care and education they provide.
I know some people have satisfactory resections done by general surgeons - but I wonder if the ostomy nurse - CR surgeon professional association I benefitted from as a patient in NYC contributed to my rather quick success with my ostomy? When surgery happens on an emergency basis, and there's little/no pre-op counseling, can a patient get a referral to a wound-ostomy group from the operating doctor? I can see where if I'd had my surgery done here, I might not have gotten the immediate, extensive hand-holding that I got both pre-op and after surgery in NYC...and without the education and professional support I got in the beginning, my outcome might have been slower getting to functional and content.