Postby nodo » Wed Feb 07, 2007 10:47 pm
Pollyanna - I, too, was so anxious when chemo finally ended. I couldn't wait for it to end, but when it did, I was scared. From the moment I found out I had cancer, it was nothing but fight, fight, fight. Then, it becomes wait, wait, wait. It is an adjustment and don't be hard on yourself. It is completely normal to feel that way. However, you now need to find a new normal for you where you can be happy. I was a stay at home mom to four little ones when chemo ended. I found myself at home a lot letting my thoughts wonder. Not a good thing! What I finally did was do things on my own that made me feel like I was still fighting. I have read that for those with colon cancer who walk 6 hours per week, the risk of recurrence is significantly less. You can bet I started that! I also did a lot of reading on nutrition and what were good cancer fighting foods and I made sure my diet was loaded with those things. I also removed all the bad things that help the cancer grow. I continued with mental imagery and meditation. I even took up yoga - I am not flexible, so it's not a pretty sight, but I do it anyway. I don't know if any of these things helped me, but I was doing things that made me feel like I was still fighting. It's taken me a long time and while I still think about my cancer a lot, it doesn't completely consume me the way it used to. I also went back to work 2 morning per week. That was a big change after being out of the work force for so long and there are times I don't want to go at all, but it gives me another identity. For so long, I felt like the cancer patient. At my office, no one knew. It was bizarre at first, but it is a good escape. Hang in there - day by day - and you will find a good place. It may be different than before cancer, but it can be better than before, too. Best wishes!