So very sorry to hear this:( Dez, I am glad that you and your child are doing well. I am sure you have many wonderful memories to hold close and cherish.
I lost my mom about 11months ago and just started going to counseling last month. I found someone through palliative care/hospice in our area. I've only gone twice and I've felt better each time. There's no "cure" for what is happening, because he can't take away the pain or bring her back...
Women know they need regular mammograms thanks to breast cancer awareness. I wish people would get the same message about colonoscopies. They can save your life too. It's just not as pretty as the tatas.