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took my babe's ashes home to where we were married on our anniversary.
had to walk around the gate since they were closed this month except for weddings.
Met our pastor on the long walk out.

Tmrw at 1:11 pm will be the 3 month mark that Tracie left this world in my arms. She looked at me a week before when we both accepted that there was nothing either of us could do to save her. She saw in my eyes and without saying or asking but just realizing, she blurted out that I was not going to ...

My dear friend I am sorry that we have this common bond but our amazing wives brought us here. I haven't been able to come to this site until today. It was just too much. But I needed to read your post. Well I use to live on this sight for the first couple yrs of diagnosis. I haven't been on the las...

Good news like this just makes my day!!!

my friends i asked Tracie to help me through today during her memorial service. She came through as she always does. It was beautiful with our friends there. We held together and made it through the service the best we could. Our friends came to our home and spent time with us. We are lucky to have ...

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I thank all of you for your wisdom, support and kindness,

so many of my friends here have given me support, knowledge and comfort.
Tracie is here in our bedroom but unresponsive. nurse just told me it could be hours or maybe a day or two but nobody can be sure.
I have no words for the pain I feel.
I am comforting her the best I can.
Paul

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After raising the toilet seat and adding side rails to help lift I bought a shower chair with arms. I also just got a chair just outside the shower so she can sit while I dry and dress her.

Thank you everyone.
I have been very busy getting her in home care set up.
Hope we get this down to a routine soon.
Paul

Tk you my friend.

Basically the best I can figure from meeting with some of the best doctors after we were told MSK could not help us any longer is that my wife's liver if too damaged from the direct chemo therapy for any further treatment. Her bilirubin has peaked at 18 and is now dropping. Unfortunately our local o...

could not be happier for you

Well you a good friend here that lives in Arkansas and dreams about living in NZ :D Our health care is not the best but we do have most of the best doctors. I will look into it but I think if you husband is a citizen than you can get good coverage though ACA. Every state is different and it depends ...